... gives me anxiety. I felt it yesterday and I wasn't sure why, and 20 minutes on this site, I feel jumpy. Reading about all the things people are doing reminds me about what *I* have to do and I get nervous!!!!!!
Anyone else?
SparkyandAng
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Well I have anxiety anyway, but yes, the other day someone mentioned the marriage license and I had a panic moment. OMG, it's not even on my list. DUH one of the most important things.
I just keep telling myself, it will all get done...millions before me have done it, and millions after me will.
Oh Jenn I was a little freaked out today when my countdown changed to 49
Kimbalina
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yes!! But not as much as last month!! LMAO
TrueLoveIn2008
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Posted by SparkyandAng
Well I have anxiety anyway, but yes, the other day someone mentioned the marriage license and I had a panic moment. OMG, it's not even on my list. DUH one of the most important things.
I just keep telling myself, it will all get done...millions before me have done it, and millions after me will.
Oh Jenn I was a little freaked out today when my countdown changed to 49
I mentioned that on the countdown thread - that in three hours I will be under 50!!!!
I spent last night making a new menu - my old sample was nice but I wanted it to look more elegant - and made about 6 of them before I ran out of paper (only bought a little). So that's my plan this weekend. I'm getting a ton done - just running out of money! Got my morning-of outfit from old navy yesterday, got a FG gift last week and getting another today so she'll be done, got tealights yesterday online, got my cake topper on ebay yesterday ... I don't know what I'm anxious ABOUT really as I am in good shape. Just the actual day, I guess?
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I'm not nervous about things that need to get done because I'm very organized and have planned things out and when to do them. It's the people that haven't RSVP that tick me off. They have one week left!
jcslady
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me too! I am with ya!...
too much to do too little time! and i said i wouldn't do stuff at the last min!!
agraydc
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absolutely yes!!!!!
but not everyone is planning the same type of wedding,..... so i focus on my to do list and check here to see if i missed anything, but if i dont want or need it i dont add it just because another liw bride is doing it
TrueLoveIn2008
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Posted by agraydc
absolutely yes!!!!!
but not everyone is planning the same type of wedding,..... so i focus on my to do list and check here to see if i missed anything, but if i dont want or need it i dont add it just because another liw bride is doing it
Of course - if it's something I am not doing it doesn't worry me - it's just overall, I think, all the planning everyone's doing - makes me remember what I need to do, and gets me a little anxious sometimes.
Talking about it has helped, I feel better now!!!
LuvMyAlfonse
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Most definitely!!!!!!!!!!!!!
bluegreen08
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i am very anxious by nature. looking at this website when i was planning made me anxious, and now even after my wedding sometimes i get anxious for those of you still planning.
KK Holiday
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there are days when I avoid LIW because it's stressful lol and puts pressure on getting things done
bluekat16
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OMG...sometimes that happens...yesterday was one of those days. The closer I get to 99 days the more I feel I have to do...especially when I read the posts here.
Future Mulligan
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yep - im stressing about my invites hardcore right now i still have to finalize the guest list, send that out so the envelopes can be printed - and there was a small issue with the ribbon and slides on my invites that is fixed now but its a little different than my sample - so i havent seen the revised invite in person yet, ill be seeing it for the first time when i get all of them!
then once i get them, i have to stuff with them with the JT direction cards (and hotel cards - which i either have to get or DIY), we have to do the postage, and get them hand cancelled....
for some reason its totally stressing me out
agraydc
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somedays i just go to the brides review to see all the gorgeous brides and then i feel much better!!!!
Kittyg19
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Yes! but then it gets me motivated and i work on three or four things. def good reminders. I have done a lot and I still feel like I have so much to do ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!
jessnstu08
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I always have anxiety , so LIW didn't cause more for me , just the planning itself for me did. not to mention everyone's B S that I ( and most of you) have delt with.
Kerin2804
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Try to realx Jenn - everything will get done. I started to freak out and now w/ 22 days to go I am feeling better. Things come together.
TiffJoey
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ha ha i totally agree....i sent my invites out this morning with 50 days to go and everytime i came on here and read about people getting married in nov and dec and their invites were out already made me even more anxious that mine still weren't....INVITES SUCK but at least they are done now
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No moving 2 weeks before the wedding stresses me out and being away for 10 out of the next 57 stresses me out
