someWhat of a Vent bout FMIL

Over the weekend we went Fh's Aunts house and she had allll of her 93577 grandchildren there mainly boys ages 2-5 about 5 of them

anyway they would NOT leave me alone sayin they wanted to marry me and i do admit it was cute but annoying bc i was having my hair pulled and constant naggin of UPPY or eat with me or why dont u hug me lol

all the adults thought this was cute-i thought it was torture- let me tell you that was the best birth control for me..they were out of hand wild boys lol

when we all sat to eat-my Fmil said wouldn't be great Vickie if you have all the boys as ring boys???????????????????????

I STUFF my mouth with food so i can't reply. while she's staring at me...and kind of smirk the look of death @ her.

anyway she would not shut up about having them-

and honestly i wont have them. i have my BP hand selected lol land she's just Effin things up..i hate being put on the spot. and i hate becomin the 'B*tch bc of her i think she does things to test me.

now i am just waitin for her to tell me to put them in bc she feels obligated as- we HAD to add her Crazy Nephew in the BP -

I hate when people put me on the spot too...I swear as people get older they start to lose their 'edit button' in their heads.

Let your FH field that ridiculous request. Discuss it with FH though first so he knows what to say

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Posted by AMGBride2008

Let your FH field that ridiculous request. Discuss it with FH though first so he knows what to say

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ohhh i got him on check lol i warned him-

after she had me add her nephew -

I seriously didn't want to add people i dont want a large party but she insisted bc he's an only child-

but now these little crazy boys? OMG-hellssssssssss no

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Posted by anneandchris

I hate when people put me on the spot too...I swear as people get older they start to lose their 'edit button' in their heads.

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This is sooooo true! Not only do they 'lose their edit button' but they feel they have the right to have lost it!

You should have FH deal with FMIL. Have him talk to her about what the two of you envision for your BP.

I would have told her right there on the spot that is is kind of her to mention that but you already have your bridal party picked out. and that you and fh agreed on this already.

people can be so obnixious sometimes.

i hate those situations people and their big mouths and stupid opinions!!

I hate being bitc%$y and bossy about wedding stuff so i try to say 'Sorry' 'Cant' or 'No' in the sweetest voice i have - and thats the best you can do.

You know the saying - people cant take advantage of you without your permission!!

thanks!!

ah- well those who know me- know that I always get my way, and im in control-not his mom. i love her respect her but she has to know im the new queen B hhaha

and FH is always by my side.

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Posted by SoVic08

thanks!!

ah- well those who know me- know that I always get my way, and im in control-not his mom. i love her respect her but she has to know im the new queen B hhaha

and FH is always by my side.

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You go girl!!!! Good for you!!!!!