song question

My e-party is next Sat. night and I want to dance w/my mom and dad. I know it might be a bit muc for an e-party, but its something I want to do. Do u think 'By Your Side' by Sade is too first dance w/FHish to dance w/my mom to?? I love the words but I don't know. Also, did u/will u tell ur parents what the song will be?
TIA