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Sonicstef's 10/5 Vendor Reviews (now with a few honeymoon photos!)

Original post by Sonicstef

Let me start by saying that I now know a bride is the last person you want to listen to about vendor reviews. Everything seems too perfect but not good enough all at the same time. You are being pulled in a thousand different directions so you don’t get to pay as close attention as you want but you have the highest expectations just the same. So in with that notice, here are my vendor reviews….

Rehearsal Dinner: Carmines Restaurant
Awesome! Food was delicious and plentiful. Drinks kept coming. The restaurant was noisy but it added to a fun atmosphere. And the prices are some of the best deals in the city.

Dress: Bridal Reflections
Unfortunately, I have to give a bad review here. I loved, loved, loved my gown. I got a much better price by going through Bridal Reflections over Kleinfelds so that is a big positive. But there were several problems encountered while ordering and making appointments but more importantly – BOTH of the straps on my dress broke at some point during the night. The seamstress made an alteration to the straps on my final fitting which were obviously not sewn in strong enough. My other alterations were minimal but good – and of course I had to pay the full amount (up to the cap) for this. Thankfully my MOH is pretty good with a needle and thread!

BM Dresses: Netbride.com
Nothing but raves. Saved $100 each! Dresses arrived early.

Flowergirl Dress: Goldengiraffe.com
Very good price for a silk dress. Fit perfectly based on measurements.

Tuxedos: Barry’s Formalwear
Very good. Good selection and price. Barry’s came to our home to measure, drop off and pick up. There was one size that was too big and they came the next day to drop off a new tux.

Headpiece & Earrings: Naugi.com
Fast service, reasonable prices, beautiful products.

Hair & Makeup: Francine & Sue
Francine did a great job with my hair that day. I was a little worried because previous trials didn’t come out just right but it all worked out in the end. Her prices are reasonable and she is a sweet woman. I would recommend her to anyone who wanted a simple ‘do.
Sue did a beautiful job. My neck was all red that morning and she covered it up beautifully. I showed her a photo of the look I wanted – natural with a slightly dramatic eye and she did it perfectly. I NEVER wear makeup so for me to be comfortable with a full face on is a feat.

Transportation: Royalty Limos
I didn’t ride in the big limo (18 person Navigator) but I assume it was ok. Our car (’47 Caddy) was beautiful and comfortable. Drivers were early and friendly. Only complaint is that they seemed slightly less comfortable with driving in NYC traffic had me a bit worried with their assessments that we didn’t have enough time to stop at both Grand Central and Times Square.

Flowers: Spitz & Peck
Mixed review here. They were difficult to deal with in the beginning. Everything seemed to be one problem after the next – particularly since I didn’t want ANY white flowers (which seemed to be their strong suite) and I was not about to spend a lot more for what I wanted. After a few meetings, things got easier. My contact, Lizette, definitely seemed like she was trying to work with me and I got a lot more comfortable with the situation after that. My bouquets arrived that morning and were beautiful but I thought the stems were way too long so they took them out to the truck to cut them a bit. I would have preferred them even shorter but I figured it wasn’t a battle worth fighting. The florist brought me a bag of red rose petals (which they did not charge me for) and I was very happy with since I expected the free kind to be the mixed color kind. So far, so good. The pew bows were nicer than I expected or paid for – I had paid for hydrandrea and the florist had included a few roses as well – again, very nice. But the ceremony arrangements were a big disappointment. I had provided a photo of EXACTLY what I had wanted and their version was a far cry. I had specified no daisies and there were gerbera daisies in the arrangements, they did not use the containers I asked for and the right and left ones were slightly different. Ok, no big deal. Then I got to the reception. The very expensive arrangement for the placecard table was ALL wrong. Again, I had provided a photo and asked for a recreation of the photo with red flowers instead of the ones shown. The branches had leaves on them, the flowers were mixed with the dreaded white lilies in them and it was nothing as I had wanted it. I got to the reception site and told Lizette “this is not what I wanted” and she said “we are not finished yet, don’t worry”. The centerpieces were very pretty but missing the amaranthus that I wanted and had them write down.

So all in all – I think Spitz & Peck is great if you love the traditional white flower deal. I think they have lots of experience with that so probably do a wonderful job in those cases. I do think they were trying to please me but just didn’t understand that when I said “I don’t like white flowers” or “I want this exactly” – I really meant that. In my case, I was very disappointed with a few key things, which tainted some of the good things they did.

Ceremony: St Malachy’s Church
The priest, Father Erno, is sweet but a little disorganized. A few encounters had me very nervous about how the ceremony would turn out. Particularily when he called to tell me a few days before the rehearsal that he would not be joining us because he would be “out of town”.
But the ceremony was beautiful. Father Erno did exactly as we asked.
The music director was on the ball the entire time. She arranged for 2 beautiful vocalists to do a rendition of “Ave Maria” and “The Prayer”.

Reception: Yale Club
Nearly everything was perfect on our wedding day. If there were any major mishaps, I don’t know about it. The rooms were absolutely perfect for the party I wanted, and our # of guests. The suite we were given that night was huge and lovely. Our maitre d was very accommodating all around. My only complaint is that the catering manager, Kevin OBrien, was quite curt throughout the planning. He didn’t return my phone calls and was very unaccommodating when it came to my requests to bring my own candles. He had not even planned to be there on our wedding day but made sure that we knew it was expected of us to give him a “several hundred dollar” tip a week before the wedding.

Band: Timepiece
Honestly, I don’t remember much except that they didn’t do a great job with our first dance. Granted, we had a very unusual request of performing the song EXACTLY as the Nat King Cole version we provided but I was still a little upset about that. I remember hearing a few of the songs as we danced and thinking they were doing a great job with those. And I know they learned one of my favorite songs, “Get Here” and did a beautiful job with it. The band members were sweet and courteous and a pleasure to deal with. I really need to watch the raw footage of my video to give a full review here since so much is a blur – but lots of people said the band was great so that is a start.


michele31 Posted:

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Any advise for upcoming brides Stef?

Sonicstef Posted:

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I have too many and will end up boring people with my lecture :D

berlykim22 Posted:

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Congrats Stef
Seems you had a great day, You looked Beautiful (saw some pics someone posted).
thanks for the reviews.
kimberly
JENHOS Posted:

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Nothing.....Not even your type 5 bits of advice?
You were so organized through all of this so I would love to know what your thoughts are.
Sonicstef Posted:

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Since Im bored at work...I will give you the advice I can think of but I know I have lots more because everytime I would think of something, I would say 'I should tell the msg board girls this' - and that happened a lot.

Point 1: Don't worry about the weather. I stressed about it the entire week before. And once you see a bad report there is no way you can stop yourself so DON'T LOOK in the first place.

Point 2: Get it all done early. This goes for all the planning. When I first started doing stuff, many vendors would tell me 'you have plenty of time'. Well the reality is - the time flies by and then you are left with a really long to-do list. Even with all my organization - i still have a lot to do in the end because I procrasted on things. One of the best things I did was drop everything off to my reception site a full week before the wedding. Once that was done - it was a huge weight off my shoulders.

Point 3: Don't invite anyone you don't like.
For me - there was only one woman there that I couldn't stand (MIL's friend) And wouldn't you know it - she caused the biggest scene at the worst time. I wish I did what I wanted and not invited her.

Point 4: Get the best vendors you can afford
Don't sell your blood or anything - but don't scrimp if you can avoid it. I hired my florist because they were the cheapest option - looking back, I wish I had spent a few extra dollars and would have avoided aggravation.

Point 5: Get a VIDEO!!
I was so anti video all along. I thought it was the most tacky and annoying thing about any wedding I have been too. But if I had not gotten one, I would have been heartbroken!! I can't wait to see my footage to see all the things that I missed.

Point 6: Treat your bridesmaids as friends, not workers
I have touched on this before but I think the effort and expense involved in being a bridesmaids should be regarded by the bride as work. I know my friends did it out of love and don't think of it as work - but I know they deserved to be treated well as a result. I spent A LOT of money and time in honouring them and making sure they enjoyed themselves throughout the planning. I made sure they loved their dresses, choose their own accessories and were done up to feel beautiful (not to look like I wanted them to look but how they felt best) I think they appreciated all of that and it made the whole a thing a much better experience. My maid of honor was literally the best maid of honor anyone could ask for - she deserved 10x the thanks I could have given her.


See...i told you I would ramble on and on...

MarcellaBella Posted:

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Thank you for the wonderful review Stef!! You were a beautiful bride and all your hard work and dedication proved just that! Congratulations and the best of luck to you and your new husband!!

also, thanks for the great pointers!!
dcbride Posted:

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Stef- I just want to say that your program is so nice.

Claud2001 Posted:

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Stef - well said. You are now a Mrs! Congratulations to you and Luke.
MISHY Posted:

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Stef~ I can't wait to see your pictures!! Over the last few months I have gotten so many great ideas from you.. You have been so helpful in so many different aspects and I can't wait to see your pics.. And I will take your advice!!

Misty Posted:

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Awesome Stef. Congratulations!!!

What did you get your bridesmaids as gifts?
Teri Posted:

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good suggestions - but the weather one will worry everyone I think!

I WISH I was bored on my first day back to work - it's going to take me days to catch up!
Sonicstef Posted:

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Misty - I posted photos elsewhere of my gifts but I gave them:

a)Monogrammed bathrobes with a big box of bath goodies including slippers, loofah on a stick, bath salts, rubby ducky and ton of other little stuff.
b)Marcasite earrings (MOH got Marcasite earrings, a marcasite pin and marcasite watch).
c)Bridesmaid Luncheon which was going to see the broadway show 'Caberet'
d)Hair done on me
JENHOS Posted:

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Thanks Stef!

Marcela1654 Posted:

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Thanks for the great review and the great advice! Congratulations!!!
Paiz Posted:

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I can't wait to see some pics. Could you detail your special touches? I know of the place candles, but I'm not sure what they are exactly.

Thanks - and congrats. Your day sounds PERFECT!
Jenny Posted:

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Stef -

I had a similar experience w/ Spitz and Peck. I just thought I didn't make myself clear but after reading your review I am not alone. I booked them based on their glowing reputation. When I went to see my sample it was nothing that I wanted. At that time I was once again assured that they knew what I was talking about. I ended up going to see them two days before the wedding b/c I was nervous that the flowers woudn't be right. I sure am glad I went. Once again they had to totally redo the sample. I still was not completely satisfied but my mother was. I let it go since she was happy with it.

In the end the flowers were beautiful but I felt that I should not have had to go through all the stress in the first place. Unlike what you said S&P were not at all my cheapest quote but based on their reputation I felt comfortable paying more thinking I would not have any problems. I am not saying that the flowers were not beautiful I just felt that things could have gone a lot smoother.

Kris Posted:

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Sonic, sounds like a great day! I am also using the 47 Caddy from Royalty. Glad to hear it worked out. Can't wait to see pics.

fYi- I met with Spitz & Peck on Sunday at the Huntington location, and they totally don't have a problem with a 'no white flowers' thing. The closes I am having to white is a cream colored rose in some boutennieres and my bouquet (minimal- mostly fall hues).

Anyway, like I said, can't wait to see pics, the ones I have seen so far are awesome.
LA Productions Posted:

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LA Productions Posted:

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sorry girls, wrong board!

lulu Posted:

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Congratulations! I'm happy to hear you had a wonderful day. All of your hard work paid off.

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