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Sonicstef's 10/5 Vendor Reviews (now with a few honeymoon photos!)

Original post by Sonicstef

Let me start by saying that I now know a bride is the last person you want to listen to about vendor reviews. Everything seems too perfect but not good enough all at the same time. You are being pulled in a thousand different directions so you don’t get to pay as close attention as you want but you have the highest expectations just the same. So in with that notice, here are my vendor reviews….

Rehearsal Dinner: Carmines Restaurant
Awesome! Food was delicious and plentiful. Drinks kept coming. The restaurant was noisy but it added to a fun atmosphere. And the prices are some of the best deals in the city.

Dress: Bridal Reflections
Unfortunately, I have to give a bad review here. I loved, loved, loved my gown. I got a much better price by going through Bridal Reflections over Kleinfelds so that is a big positive. But there were several problems encountered while ordering and making appointments but more importantly – BOTH of the straps on my dress broke at some point during the night. The seamstress made an alteration to the straps on my final fitting which were obviously not sewn in strong enough. My other alterations were minimal but good – and of course I had to pay the full amount (up to the cap) for this. Thankfully my MOH is pretty good with a needle and thread!

BM Dresses: Netbride.com
Nothing but raves. Saved $100 each! Dresses arrived early.

Flowergirl Dress: Goldengiraffe.com
Very good price for a silk dress. Fit perfectly based on measurements.

Tuxedos: Barry’s Formalwear
Very good. Good selection and price. Barry’s came to our home to measure, drop off and pick up. There was one size that was too big and they came the next day to drop off a new tux.

Headpiece & Earrings: Naugi.com
Fast service, reasonable prices, beautiful products.

Hair & Makeup: Francine & Sue
Francine did a great job with my hair that day. I was a little worried because previous trials didn’t come out just right but it all worked out in the end. Her prices are reasonable and she is a sweet woman. I would recommend her to anyone who wanted a simple ‘do.
Sue did a beautiful job. My neck was all red that morning and she covered it up beautifully. I showed her a photo of the look I wanted – natural with a slightly dramatic eye and she did it perfectly. I NEVER wear makeup so for me to be comfortable with a full face on is a feat.

Transportation: Royalty Limos
I didn’t ride in the big limo (18 person Navigator) but I assume it was ok. Our car (’47 Caddy) was beautiful and comfortable. Drivers were early and friendly. Only complaint is that they seemed slightly less comfortable with driving in NYC traffic had me a bit worried with their assessments that we didn’t have enough time to stop at both Grand Central and Times Square.

Flowers: Spitz & Peck
Mixed review here. They were difficult to deal with in the beginning. Everything seemed to be one problem after the next – particularly since I didn’t want ANY white flowers (which seemed to be their strong suite) and I was not about to spend a lot more for what I wanted. After a few meetings, things got easier. My contact, Lizette, definitely seemed like she was trying to work with me and I got a lot more comfortable with the situation after that. My bouquets arrived that morning and were beautiful but I thought the stems were way too long so they took them out to the truck to cut them a bit. I would have preferred them even shorter but I figured it wasn’t a battle worth fighting. The florist brought me a bag of red rose petals (which they did not charge me for) and I was very happy with since I expected the free kind to be the mixed color kind. So far, so good. The pew bows were nicer than I expected or paid for – I had paid for hydrandrea and the florist had included a few roses as well – again, very nice. But the ceremony arrangements were a big disappointment. I had provided a photo of EXACTLY what I had wanted and their version was a far cry. I had specified no daisies and there were gerbera daisies in the arrangements, they did not use the containers I asked for and the right and left ones were slightly different. Ok, no big deal. Then I got to the reception. The very expensive arrangement for the placecard table was ALL wrong. Again, I had provided a photo and asked for a recreation of the photo with red flowers instead of the ones shown. The branches had leaves on them, the flowers were mixed with the dreaded white lilies in them and it was nothing as I had wanted it. I got to the reception site and told Lizette “this is not what I wanted” and she said “we are not finished yet, don’t worry”. The centerpieces were very pretty but missing the amaranthus that I wanted and had them write down.

So all in all – I think Spitz & Peck is great if you love the traditional white flower deal. I think they have lots of experience with that so probably do a wonderful job in those cases. I do think they were trying to please me but just didn’t understand that when I said “I don’t like white flowers” or “I want this exactly” – I really meant that. In my case, I was very disappointed with a few key things, which tainted some of the good things they did.

Ceremony: St Malachy’s Church
The priest, Father Erno, is sweet but a little disorganized. A few encounters had me very nervous about how the ceremony would turn out. Particularily when he called to tell me a few days before the rehearsal that he would not be joining us because he would be “out of town”.
But the ceremony was beautiful. Father Erno did exactly as we asked.
The music director was on the ball the entire time. She arranged for 2 beautiful vocalists to do a rendition of “Ave Maria” and “The Prayer”.

Reception: Yale Club
Nearly everything was perfect on our wedding day. If there were any major mishaps, I don’t know about it. The rooms were absolutely perfect for the party I wanted, and our # of guests. The suite we were given that night was huge and lovely. Our maitre d was very accommodating all around. My only complaint is that the catering manager, Kevin OBrien, was quite curt throughout the planning. He didn’t return my phone calls and was very unaccommodating when it came to my requests to bring my own candles. He had not even planned to be there on our wedding day but made sure that we knew it was expected of us to give him a “several hundred dollar” tip a week before the wedding.

Band: Timepiece
Honestly, I don’t remember much except that they didn’t do a great job with our first dance. Granted, we had a very unusual request of performing the song EXACTLY as the Nat King Cole version we provided but I was still a little upset about that. I remember hearing a few of the songs as we danced and thinking they were doing a great job with those. And I know they learned one of my favorite songs, “Get Here” and did a beautiful job with it. The band members were sweet and courteous and a pleasure to deal with. I really need to watch the raw footage of my video to give a full review here since so much is a blur – but lots of people said the band was great so that is a start.


Jeanene Posted:

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Thank you so much for your detailed reveiw. I found it very helpful - especially for the tips for brides! I can't wait to see more pictures!!!

All the best!
christy Posted:

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Looking so forward to your pics! All the best to you and your new hubby!

Karen62794 Posted:

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Sounds wonderful Stef. I'm glad everything worked out so well. I know how much time and effort you put into everything!

All the best to you!
cw0904 Posted:

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Congratulations!!
Can't wait to see more pics
All the best to you and your hubby
Tammy5-03 Posted:

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Congratulations, it sound like it was a beautiful day. Thanks for the detailed review and your good advice. I'm looking forward to the pictures.

KimmieG Posted:

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Congrats!! Nice detailed review!! Good luck to you and your new hubby!!
tarakinspa Posted:

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Congrats Stef!
Diane Posted:

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Congrats!!!! When are we going to see pics???

ChristineC68 Posted:

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Your review sounds great! I am glad everything worked out so beautifully!

Your advise was right on! Don't watvh the weather and get it done early were the best stress relievers.
Sonicstef Posted:

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Ive been too exhausted to start scanning but I will have them pretty soon.

Sonicstef Posted:

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Oh and I forgot another little piece of advice..

Get nice shoes! Everyone says 'you will barely see your shoes'. Well in my case - my shoes are in at least 10% of my photos and in the NY Times! Yes they hurt but I barely noticed until after the wedding was over, I was on such a natural high.
Claud2001 Posted:

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You are so right about the shoes Stef! And, they looked fabulous, BTW
LaurenS Posted:

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Congratulations!! It's sounds like it was beautiful!! Best Wishes!

yabbobay Posted:

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I agree about the shoes stef...my shoes are in so many of my pictures...

shepppy Posted:

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Thanks, Stef for your review. It sounds like it was wonderful. You've been such a help to all of us.

Sonicstef Posted:

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Sorry...but I still haven't had a chance to scan all my wonderful proofs (or even one for that matter). But I thought I would entertain you guys with a couple of my honeymoon photos. I plan on putting more in here later but the pigeon shots in here are the highlights. PS: I hate pigeons - aka sky rats!

Some honeymoon photos
wedbabe Posted:

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I am so glad to hear that everything went so well for you. Thanks also for the heads-up about Spitz and Peck, I'm using them too, and plan on doing a thorough review before my big day.

I also just checked out your pictures and was laughing out loud about the pigeons!! I can't believe they landed on you like that!! How funny!! And you holding up the Leaning tower is classic. Looks like you guys had a great time in a beautiful place. Congrats again!!
Teri Posted:

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LOL Sky rats! They really are! I love the one of you 'holding' up the tower
shepppy Posted:

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Very cute!
If you switched the faces that could be my fiance & I in Venice...every photo seems to be one of us trying to escape the inevitability of being sh*t upon by the birds! Looks like you two had a really fun time.
lilmrs Posted:

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Great pics! I wish I was there (not with you on your honeymoon...just there)

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