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sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!

MJDoc12 Posted:

sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!

i need to vent cause i'm super PO'd!!

so a group of us are planning on going to the haunted house in wading river--we do it every year--and the past 2 years my FH has had to work and couldn't go. like 15 of us were going , and we all never get to hang out together like that cause everyone is busy with school..careers..family..etc. (these are friends that i've known from as long ago as high school)

well this year my FH finally has this friday night OFF! he was so psyched to go and catch up with the 'old gang' and such. well i just got off the phone with him and he got NYPD notification that he must work OT on fri. night from 8:30 p.m. to 4:30 a.m.!!!!!!!!!!!! FU*********K!

i HATE that they wait until like 3 days b4 to say 'hey you HAVE to work and have no choice in the matter' it always spoils our wknd plans. i mean i shouldn't complain cause it's OT and good $$. but i just hate that he misses this AGAIN!

FH and I like horror movies and scary things, and halloween is our fav time of year. (example: we spent a romantic evening last nite watching the original Texas Chainsaw Massacre on DVD!) so that's why this is making me so damn angry!

okay vent over!


************UPDATE!!!!!!************
FH just got to my job (with food...thank ya je-sus)...and told me that when he got back to his precinctt for roll call at the end of his shift---he reviewed his OT sheet...and saw that he is already at the max of 35 hrs. for the month...and if he took the mandatory OT they just gave him for Friday--he'd go over and that is NOT good. (if you go over yout OT cap, you can get blacklisted and not get offered OT for months)

he pointed it out to his Sgt., and they said he doesn't have to work on friday!!!!!!

shelby34 Posted:

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That stinks! Sorry to hear he needs to miss the haunted house again.
I kind of understand because my FH has to travel a lot for work and misses all kinds of things. They do, once in a while, give him last minute notice that he has to be away...it stinks!
I guess it is just part of the territory. You will have fun anyway...take some pictures for FH
causeimb Posted:

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That *****!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why not decorate the house and when he walks in a 5am he wont feel like he missed it again. Then you two can cuddle up and have your own haunted house

dancerandchef Posted:

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That is so fustrating.

dancer
MJDoc12 Posted:

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Posted by causeimb

That *****!!!!!!!!!!!!! Why not decorate the house and when he walks in a 5am he wont feel like he missed it again. Then you two can cuddle up and have your own haunted house



wish i could do it up that way. but we don't live together yet. so he'll be walking into his apt. at 5 a.m. while i'm at my parent's house!

ugh--some days i'm just not a fan of his job. what can ya do.
Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted:

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chrissyandvin Posted:

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I so sorry girl!!!! I'm going there Friday night!!!!!!!!! Let me know if you still go without him!

SeptBride70 Posted:

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omg my brother used to get mandatory over time SO much!! it's the worst and really annoying i guess it's b/c the weekend and stuff-- they feel with halloween coming everything will be super busy and chock-full-o-crime... GREAT ughh-- so sorry honey
June12007bride Posted:

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I can’t definitely relate to how your feeling Most times my FH doesn’t know he has to work until the day before. It really s u c k s !!! Feel better
Licee15 Posted:

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I am with you my darling...NYPD bride to be too.....

Remember that it's not going to be the last time things like that happen.....I can understand why you are upset and I am feeling your pain...That happens during the holidays our anniversries, plans to go out with other couples,NYE, weddings, birthdays etc... ..But i promise once he get into a different unit and more time on the job you will see him more...I promise...If you ever need anyone to talk to let me know....Kinda been thru it all (even with the long nights and hospital calls and the no so good stuff)

Think about it....Wouldn't you rather him do it now, when you guys are young and don't have a family yet.....



BunnyBride Posted:

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I'm so sorry

Is there anyway you both could celebrate the day before or after? I know it's not the same but it may ease the dissapoinment a bit..

Lools Posted:

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That STINKS!!! I guess such is the life of a Police Officer and his woman!
Michy Posted:

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That stinks. There is nothing worse than getting disapointed when you have plans. That haunted house is really fun too.

snydl40 Posted:

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That really suc&s!!! I'm sorry. My FH had to work 13 hours yesterday-our only free full day together-but it was double time and we could use all of the extra $ we can get. So I went to work and hung out with him most of the day.
Gin-Char 104 Posted:

Re: sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!



************UPDATE!!!!!!************
FH just got to my job (with food...thank ya je-sus)...and told me that when he got back to his precinctt for roll call at the end of his shift---he reviewed his OT sheet...and saw that he is already at the max of 35 hrs. for the month...and if he took the mandatory OT they just gave him for Friday--he'd go over and that is NOT good. (if you go over yout OT cap, you can get blacklisted and not get offered OT for months)

he pointed it out to his Sgt., and they said he doesn't have to work on friday!!!!!!




NICE!!!
JIFFY Posted:

Re: sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!

YEAH!!!
soon2bmrsVPT Posted:

Re: sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!

yay for tackleberry... You two are freaks! Enjoy the haunted house!! Then go cuddle at HM or CMI... :)

snydl40 Posted:

Re: sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!

YAY!!!!!! Now you guys can have a great Friday night.
Unapearla Posted:

Re: sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!


Posted by MJDoc12

i need to vent cause i'm super PO'd!!

so a group of us are planning on going to the haunted house in wading river--we do it every year--and the past 2 years my FH has had to work and couldn't go. like 15 of us were going , and we all never get to hang out together like that cause everyone is busy with school..careers..family..etc. (these are friends that i've known from as long ago as high school)

well this year my FH finally has this friday night OFF! he was so psyched to go and catch up with the 'old gang' and such. well i just got off the phone with him and he got NYPD notification that he must work OT on fri. night from 8:30 p.m. to 4:30 a.m.!!!!!!!!!!!! FU*********K!

i HATE that they wait until like 3 days b4 to say 'hey you HAVE to work and have no choice in the matter' it always spoils our wknd plans. i mean i shouldn't complain cause it's OT and good $$. but i just hate that he misses this AGAIN!

FH and I like horror movies and scary things, and halloween is our fav time of year. (example: we spent a romantic evening last nite watching the original Texas Chainsaw Massacre on DVD!) so that's why this is making me so damn angry!

okay vent over!


************UPDATE!!!!!!************
FH just got to my job (with food...thank ya je-sus)...and told me that when he got back to his precinctt for roll call at the end of his shift---he reviewed his OT sheet...and saw that he is already at the max of 35 hrs. for the month...and if he took the mandatory OT they just gave him for Friday--he'd go over and that is NOT good. (if you go over yout OT cap, you can get blacklisted and not get offered OT for months)

he pointed it out to his Sgt., and they said he doesn't have to work on friday!!!!!!





that is great news!
Licee15 Posted:

Re: sonofamuthafu#*#@)* *#@) (VENT) : UPDATE!!!!! FH JUST TOLD ME GOOD NEWS!!!!!!

Eeverything happens for a reason my love!

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