soo.....

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 08, 2009 04:41 PM

soo.....

Ive decided alot of my 'friends' are crappy. Ive pretended for awhile since i refuse to believe people change but thats ok. Ive asked around trying to see if its me and whatnot, but each situation seems to fall on them.

Any of you girls want to be my new friend? I need girl friends and dont have many

im so pathetic

jayepyt Posted: Aug 08, 2009 04:43 PM

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me either sweetie

mag2010 Posted: Aug 08, 2009 04:54 PM

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I hear you! I'll be your new friend.

mbscheer Posted: Aug 08, 2009 04:55 PM

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Ive been feeling pretty yucky lately about my friends. I was hoping it would get better but its not. I feel your pain.

StaceYums81 Posted: Aug 08, 2009 04:55 PM

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I don't have many friends either just a few close ones and mainly my coworkers

babsbeark Posted: Aug 08, 2009 04:55 PM

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I;m the same way i have like 3 good female friends

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 08, 2009 05:00 PM

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things have just come to a head lately. But i ask neutral parties their take since u know im not perfect and they dont know why ive taken as much as i did.

i have a few good ones, by no one local. I just wish i had girls i could call up on a friday night ya know?

irisheyes23 Posted: Aug 08, 2009 11:13 PM

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I will be your friend!! People suck I've always said but now that I'm getting married, I know for sure. I asked my friend to be my MOH(I've known her ALL of our lives-38 years and she said she had to think about it!!!)

Carolann Posted: Aug 08, 2009 11:26 PM

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i only have like 3 friends . . . but really just my fiance . . . i'll be your friend!!

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 08, 2009 11:31 PM

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thanks girlies... the night got even worse. FH wasn so sweet to listen to me all night, i just need a girl to vent to ya know?

regy_k Posted: Aug 08, 2009 11:36 PM

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I dont have any friends other than FH and mom (beat this patheticness!)
other than them I really have nobody to talk to. all my other friends are either back in my country or my BFF claims I became selfish since I got engaged

I need friends too

netsirk10 Posted: Aug 08, 2009 11:42 PM

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i will too! i feel like it has become so hard to even socialize with people. all my old friends are in a completely different place in their lives and just do not seem to care about our friendship(s).

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 09, 2009 12:02 AM

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I feel like such a dork, but would love to actually hang out with your girls. Its so hard to make new friends once your 'older' aka not in HS anymore

Im getting Married Posted: Aug 09, 2009 12:04 AM

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I think most people go through this during so point. People tend to start moving in different directions.

The G2G's are a good way to meet other girls from here.

sugarnspice Posted: Aug 09, 2009 12:07 AM

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Its crazy. Like i would never have guessed my and my 'best friends' would have wound up where we are. Its like if we met today, we would not be friends. Im just tired of pretending. I feel like im so past that stufff Again i know i have my flaws and im not perfect, but there is a balance

Im thirlled to be getting married and im SO over that HS drama catty-ness but id still like to have a girls night we w go out to a bar or club or even movies and just have fun. It seems I have one or the other with my friends and i hate it.

Who wants to hang out?

regy_k Posted: Aug 09, 2009 12:11 AM

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Posted by AliP2010

Its crazy. Like i would never have guessed my and my 'best friends' would have wound up where we are. Its like if we met today, we would not be friends. Im just tired of pretending. I feel like im so past that stufff Again i know i have my flaws and im not perfect, but there is a balance

Im thirlled to be getting married and im SO over that HS drama catty-ness but id still like to have a girls night we w go out to a bar or club or even movies and just have fun. It seems I have one or the other with my friends and i hate it.

Who wants to hang out?

u have FM

Ray8183 Posted: Aug 09, 2009 12:25 AM

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Posted by AliP2010

Its crazy. Like i would never have guessed my and my 'best friends' would have wound up where we are. Its like if we met today, we would not be friends. Im just tired of pretending. I feel like im so past that stufff Again i know i have my flaws and im not perfect, but there is a balance

Im thirlled to be getting married and im SO over that HS drama catty-ness but id still like to have a girls night we w go out to a bar or club or even movies and just have fun. It seems I have one or the other with my friends and i hate it.

Who wants to hang out?

I'll be your friend.

netsirk10 Posted: Aug 09, 2009 12:42 AM

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Posted by Im getting Married

I think most people go through this during so point. People tend to start moving in different directions.

The G2G's are a good way to meet other girls from here.

i wish more of the g2g's were in suffolk. that's where i live and the one's in nassau are just wayyyy too far for me

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Aug 09, 2009 07:41 AM

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Aww, sorry you're going through this. I've been there. I've got some STD drama going on because of one woman in particular, who thinks she's my friend but never acts like it... so we cut her out.

I don't want to have to deal with any BS on my wedding day, so I've decided to shorten the list of the people who are:

1. Only going to have negative things to say.
2. Are likely to actually ruin a wedding.

If I lose these friends along the way, that's OK, they were never genuine friends to begin with. As your life changes you'll align yourself with people who have your best interests at heart.