soo sadd

soo sadd

tomorrow would have been my dad's 50th birthday, but he passed away in '03 and i'm soooo down today. i just can't get out of my head what a huge celebration we would've had for him because everyone loved him so much. my mom moved to fl last summer, fh never met him, and i'm an only child so i just feel really down.

i've been listening to kate voegele's 'hallelujah' for like 2 hours now and a little while ago my son pointed onto my face (like on a tear) and was saying 'this? this?' because he's almost 15 months and doesn't understand crying yet..aw

i'm usually very quiet about things but you guys seem so supportive of one another so i had to share xo

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OMG honey- I am so sorry!

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so sorry - just think of all the good times you had with your dad

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Soooooo sorry sweetie, be strong!!!

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We are all here for you!!! Maybe try to do a special memorial for your dad. It would probably mean so much to the family.

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So sorry you are feeling down. I cant imagine how hard it must be. Hang in there...

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aw thank you girls SO much. it means alot to have such a great support system here on liw

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I am so sorry Just remember all the wonderful memories you had with eachother, with are all here for you

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aww thats sad but remember the good times and go out and honor him!

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I really understand how you feel..I lost my father back in '91 it gets easier but still hurts.

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I'm so sorry

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I totally understand how you are feeling. My dad passed away in 92 and of there are times that i really miss him. no one understands unless they lose a parent. if you ever want to talk, feel free to FM me.

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I know how you feel...it really never gets easier. My sibs and I celebrate by having dinner together on our mom's bday or mother's day and talk about her most of the time...old funny stories over our fave meal she used to cook... just to keep her memory alive, esp for the grandkiddies. Celebrate his life...keep him alive and fresh in your heart.

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I'm so sorry for your loss

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I'm so sorry

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Im so sorry. I know that a dad cant really compare to a grandpa but Im not close to any of my family really except I was to my grandfather and Im an only child as well whose never had any siblings or any family except him to be close with and he just died this December and Fh also never met him so I do understand what you are going through. Its very hard and Im not over it, nor do I think I every truly will be. Its okay to cry and be sad and In my opinion, the fact that someone is not around anymore will never really be believable. Its just so hard to grasp. I am going to say a prayer for your dad tonight.

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im so sorry hun..were all here for you though..

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i just always like to think of the people who have passed, that they are in a better place now and will always you down on you and your son.

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i just wanted to thank all of you again for all the sweet things you said it made last night and today a lot easier!! -xoxo

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Yup i know how you feel my dad died 5 years ago and my fiance just missed meeting him by 6 weeks so i know how you feel & im sorry the best thing to do is talk about it and we are always here!