Sooo all in 1 week I changed my florist and almost called off the wedding

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 01:57 PM

Sooo all in 1 week I changed my florist and almost called off the wedding

yup thats right almost called it off.... due to my @$$ of a 'mother' . If my FH hadnt talked me out of it we would be on a plane right now to go get eloped on an island somewhere... part of me still wants to do it... the other part wants me to have my big wedding... just without my mother there!
She said the most rude and hurtful things about me behind my back to my sister EVER ... like my sister who is my best friend in the whole world wouldnt tell me?!?!??!!?
But something good comes from everything negative... my fh REALLY showed me how important and how much this big crazy circus like wedding really means to him lol
btw I have also decided to walk down the isle to the circus theme song lol

shelly3950 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:00 PM

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Despite all teh aggravation, you will have an amazing wedding.

Kriss2c Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:01 PM

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Tell your mom to go scratch!!!

JZNCK Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:02 PM

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Well, it's good you didn't cancel.. it will work out in the long run

good luck with your mom, they say weddings bring the worst in people

CaCRmr Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:02 PM

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AJsMommy122 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:02 PM

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Thanks!
She told my sister that my dress isnt that beautiful and I look ' OK ' in it and she hopes the bms dont look better then me that day!!!
Can you believe my MOTHER of all people said that????????
Anyway I dont believe it ... it just hurts coming from your mom

brideinapril Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:06 PM

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Thats outrageous, I would not include her on anymore of the planning - jmo.
I can't believe she would say such hurtful things.

Bebalina Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:07 PM

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AWww.... thats horrible!
lots of and u will look beautiful! and who cares what she thinks...as long as fh is happy!

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:31 PM

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Thanks for the hugs girls!

Oh and im sooooooooooooooo happy about my change in florists!!! Its more $$$$ ( what else is new) but I am not 110% happy and confident!!! I cant believe I had my camera and FORGOT to take picso of my sample CP... I was just so excited. They are sooooooooo different and unique but soo gorgeous!! you girls are gunna love em

Bebalina Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:32 PM

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FeliciaDA Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:44 PM

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Aww... I am SOO sorry that you are going thru this ... I know it hurts even more that it came from your mom .. no matter what your relationship with her, there was no reason for her to be so cruel

But I am very glad that you reconsidered and are still having the wedding of your dreams.. I know how much it means to you (and your FH) and that is really all that matters! I think we all have times when we are ready to call the whole thing off .. Lord knows I've had those moments quite often .. LOL

But please do NOT let your mother get the best of you any longer ..I for one KNOW you are going to look amazing on your wedding day, and nothing she says is going to change that simple fact!

Now OK, back to the important stuff.. who's the new florist? I know how much flowers mean to you! I'm dying here! Post pics of your sample CPs soon, pleeeease??

hbradio Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:47 PM

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WHOA WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON HERE!?!?!?!

First of all, dont let your mother bother you. This day is for you and your FH - NO ONE ELSE!!!!

And why did you change florists!?!?! Who are you with now? What happened????

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:49 PM

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Awww, I am so sorry! Cheer up! You will be beautiful!!!!

AJsMommy122 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 02:56 PM

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Ok well........... I dont really want to get into it but my florist that I was originally with was great.. but only if you wanted to use the water tube base or whatever you call it... thats the only one they had and if I wanted to switch bases I would have to pay the rental fee... and then it got really expensive... there was also a little incident that honestly didnt have to do with me but what I heard went on.. so since I dont know if its true or not I dont want to get into it....
BUT the new florist is United Floral Comapny in great neck... the shop is soooo gorgeous !! to die for!! they do so many weddings at the plaza and werent like most florists.. they are soooooo original!! they showed us a book filled of pics they did that I would kill for!!!! the most original stuff I have ever seen!!! all different kinds of cps and arrangements.... nothing like I had ever seen before in my life!!! ( of course we could not afford any of it lol) but I liked the originality and clicked with the owner. I also LOVEDDDDDDDDD my sample cp! Its probably dead by now... they made it for me I think sun or mon... think they would make another since I already left a deposit??? maybe I should make you guys wait till after the wedding
all I know is when I saw it I was like ( in a good way)

eogara Posted: Jun 16, 2004 03:06 PM

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Posted by Kriss2c

Tell your mom to go scratch!!!

I cannot stop laughing, my mom says this all the time, I thought she made it up!!!!!

JimmysBride Posted: Jun 16, 2004 03:11 PM

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FM in a minute

BCTM33 Posted: Jun 16, 2004 03:16 PM

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hbradio Posted: Jun 16, 2004 03:20 PM

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Damn after all that with the CP you are not going with that guy! UGH!!! Well at least you found someone else you like! We are going with Donald Hedgecock - he was really nice and affordable!