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Sooo beyond annoyed

soontobecruz Posted:

Sooo beyond annoyed

I hate people, I am hating them all more and more...

yesterday I was told my Aunt who is often a flake might not be coming to the wedding.... then I get a text at 11pm last night from a friend basically begging me to let her bring a date... for a little back story, she was originally not invited with a date, then she asked if she could bring someone, I said it depends on the number.... a week later I tell her she can bring him, then a few days later she tells me they broke up.. then a week later she was bringing him... then again said she wasn't... I paid my final balance on Monday. Wed I get a text asking if it was too late for her to bring him. I said, YUP... sorry I was paid in full already. She said okay and no worries. Last night I get a long freaking text basically begging me to let her bring him, she goes on to say she will sit on his lap and not even eat... are you kidding me?? I am so frustrated over this it isn't funny.... It's beyone rude.

Then I get a text this morning from FH's cousin that her husband can't come, can she bring her son AND is GF! I said she can come with her son but the GF can't we are already paid up. She said alright thanks, I'll let you know.... I told her I need to know asap! God only knows when that will be.

I am so sick of people it isn't funny. Why don't people just get that this is a wedding not a f ucking backyard BBQ! UGHHHH sooo annoying.... Ohh and to top it off, this same friend pulled the 'why wasn't I asked to be in your wedding?' question about 30 seconds after asking me if she could bring a date... SooooOOOOoooo I made her a reader even though it was last minute.

People need to get their shi t together bc I can feel the b-zilla coming out!
JAAMS Posted:

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SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

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Ugh I hear you!!! Im sorry you are dealing with this BS. People are so inconsiderate and selfish - its sickening. Hang in there sweetie
SummerBride10 Posted:

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Oh god, I'd be beyond annoyed as well. People just don't seem to understand wedding etiquette sometimes!

Hang in there, you're getting married in a WEEK!! Think about how exciting it is and try to forget the little annoyances. You're going to be a gorgeous bride and marry the love of your live.
heathery72 Posted:

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joctorre Posted:

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So sorry, I totally feel your pain!!!!

BUT, stop trying to be SO NICE!!! The answer is no, that's that......................................... Let them hate you, who cares? They'll get it when they show up and there are no more seats................. Seriously. People ARE rude and it's NOT COOL!!!!!!!!!
soontobecruz Posted:

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thank you everyone, and I am saying NO I am just tired of having to apologize for it too. People suck!

Lil OC Posted:

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eeeek, I give you credit for not ripping their heads off.....i know i would!!!!
nell1279 Posted:

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Everyone says it but it's so true...people's true colors come out during the wedding process. I am so beyond fed up with people that I want to scream!!!
My new motto is screw being nice anymore if they want to be there they will if not to hell with them and when they need something I'll remember the crap they pulled on me.

Just relax and worry about you and FH don't let anybody get you down on your day!!
GR2010 Posted:

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I hope these people get their act together for you. How can people be so inconsiderate to not understand what goes into this and the that if they don't come you're still paying for them. It's rude.
Lsorrent Posted:

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Less than a week Shauna.............I promise all the frustrations will go away on Friday
MrsHazel2B Posted:

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people don't really understand unless they actually had to plan their own wedding.

XoxoFIOLAoxoX Posted:

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Posted by soontobecruz

Why don't people just get that this is a wedding not a f ucking backyard BBQ!




Sorry, but I used this exact line around the same time before the wedding. People are going to be redonkulous up until the last minute. Everything will work out!!
SoonToBeMrsCampos Posted:

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stacey516 Posted:

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Sorry you are going through this...people are CRAZY! They can't help themselves. I really think that people (other than us) have NO idea what goes into planning a wedding!

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