Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

A few things...before we started dating we were friends for about a month. I liked him but the timing was horrible I had recently sworn off men and dating in general so when he told me that he had strong feelings for me I turned him down. It was right before xmas break at school (where we met) and when I went home I thought about him SO much the whole time. We started dating soon after that. After we had been together for a while I came down with a virus on the parkway. He held my hair back, took me home and cleaned me up..I kept telling him get away, I don't want you to get sick too..but he wouldn't and I realized how much he loved me that he couldn't stop hugging me when I was sick and horrible looking

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

well, i fell in love pretty fast, and about 4 weeks after we started dating i told him i was going to marry him and have his kids - and he didn't blink an eye, or run the other way - he thought that was great! that's when i knew he was really the one

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

ive known since day 1

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when we were away together for the first time and i woke up (at like 4 am after a lot of drinking) in a drool puddle - i mean a PUDDLE he went to the bathroom and got tissue and cleaned my face and changed the pillow case

kissed me on the forhead and went right back to sleep like it was nothing

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

It was love at first sight!!!

One of my friends brought me to his 18th birthday party and I was the only girl there. He was a total sweetheart and made sure I was having a good time and felt comfortable. It's funny, I remember going home to my mom that night and saying ' I'm goig to marry him' and my mom just laughed!! She said what do you know your only 18 and going away to college

Well the rest is history and we got engaged on our 7th year anniversary and will be marrying after 8 years and 15 days!!

I've spent 1/3 of my life with him (i'm 26) and can't picture the rest of my life with out him!

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

my subconscious knew immediately, lol.

after i first met him, i thought he was nice but didnt think much else. i wasnt even really attracted to him, he was just a guy i happened to be sitting next to one day....then a couple days later, after not even thinking of him at all, i had this dream where basically there were two rooms and him and my ex-BF(BF at that time....) were in each room and they traded places. FH took my hand and brought me into his room. It was really weird because i thought why would i dream that about some random guy?? Well, the day after that dream, i was walking around on campus and ran into FH who made up some excuse to have to call me. It turns out he was interested in me but he hid it behind 'oh i have to call you for a school assignment' type thing.



On our very first 'date' a couple days later, by the end I knew immediately, consciously, lol.




i edited to point out that when i met FH i was breaking up with ex-BF at the same time.......LOL

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I swear I knew it the second I met him. My friend introduced me to him in high school & I got the strangest feeling about him.

After we met, we lost touch for a while, became friends, dated for a month, broke up, became best friends, got back together & have been together since. During that time that we broke up, I dated someone else & he was kind of a jerk. Adam was by my side every second of it. After the jerk broke my heart (again) I was online talking to FH (I had mono so I was home sick) & he told me that I could do so much better & said so many amazing, sweet things to me. Then he told me he loved me & that he knew we would end up married. I printed that conversation & we both still have our copies saved over 4 years later. He even came over & kissed me the next day annoucing that it would be worth it catching mono from the girl he loves.

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

the first time i saw him laugh and i mean REALLY laugh...... i remember we were at his friends house watching the movie 'almost heroes' and i just watched him the whole night as he died laughing...i went home and told my mom he was the guy i was gonna marry - needless to say she thought i was nuts, but i knew!!!!!!!!!!

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

i know this is so clique but it was when he kissed me!!

Re: Sooo...How did you ladies know that FH was 'the one'?

After we had our first amazing conversation which lasted all night (like 6+ hours), I had a feeling..... but then when we officially started going out, it all clicked pretty fast & we knew almost right away

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I had been working at Staples for like 5 months in high school and he was the 'new guy' at work. I was dating someone else at the time and that relationship was practically already over. So I saw FH and I turned around that day and told my friend at work that I was going to marry him. I dumped my previous boyfriend and asked FH out within a week. I guess it was love at first sight! 8 1/2 years later we're getting married!

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It was like a lightbulb moment for me... FH & I had been dating for about 4 yrs... We then broke up to explore other options (mainly my fault there). So I began seeing this other guy and after going out with him a couple times, I just sat with this guy thinking 'What am I doing here??? I want to be with Vin...'

And that my friends was how I knew FH was 'the one' Sad story of how I arrived at that conclusion, but it's actually pretty touching to me

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I can't pinpoint a time or place, but I knew it was the strongest damn feeling I ever had in my life- basically life changing. I knew I couldn't be without this person. We started long distance and every goodbye was excruciating....and suddenly I saw my life in a different way. It changed me in so many ways.

We both pretty much look at it this way- meeting each other brought us to exactly where we needed to be in life, simply because we had to be together. FH finally made it back to Jersey, and I finally rethought what I wanted to do with my life. And we are so much happier for it!

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We were on and off for the first two years, he was married before and was burned bad. After about two years I had had enough told him I was moving on if he couldn't tell me that it would become something serious in the future. I wasn't aloud to say the marriage word it scared him right away. About a month later I went camping and since FH is BF with my uncle he went camping too. Well my BF, who also went camping brought her Boyfriend at the time and the boyfriend brought someone for me to meet. Well long story short FH got extremely jealous that I was actually moving on. On the last day of camping FH packed up very quickly, I saw him standing by his car all upset. After speaking with him and having a little heart to heart, telling him that we will only work if it's going to lead somewhere, I said we will talk when we got back to LI. He pulled the car out and stopped, he said 'Ya know, the hardest thing for me to do right now is drive away from you' Tears rolled down his face as he blasted a country song and drove down the mountain. When we got back we went to dinner I layed down some ground rules and for the first time in two years he said to me 'I want you to be my girlfriend' 1 1/2 later we got engaged. I was so shocked wasn't expecting it until at least the next camping trip. I thought for sure we were going to get engaged camping where me met. Nope Christmas Night at my aunts house.