Sooo..I'm taking this Denver thing....

A LOTTTT harder than I thought!!
Right now I'm regretting it....I wish he didn't go and I wish I never said I would move there!

BLAHHHHH

Have you gone there yet at all?

You never know - you may end up loving it!!! Think of the home prices on Long Island - and the cost of living! You'll probably be able to live more comfortably somewhere else, KWIM?

Things will work out!

oh hunny dont worry!!! its a place for you and FH and im sure you will love it once you get there!!! you just need to adjust! try not to worry.. and jenns right the cost of living here is INSANE its prob a better decision to go there!

denver is sooo nice..you will love it

ive been living in kansas with FH family and friends and its not that bad..but were moving in november

it'll be ok!! and all of us will be here to support you! are you close to your FH's family and friends? i bet they'll love being able to spend more time with you...

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Posted by KickinDandelions

it'll be ok!! and all of us will be here to support you! are you close to your FH's family and friends? i bet they'll love being able to spend more time with you...

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I love his mom...it'll definitely be good to be around her....I don't know his friends out there really at ALL...I met some of them once!
Hopefully they'll like me! haha

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Posted by Espo22

I know its hard now bc at first you're not used to being away from him, but that time will come soon when you two will live together. Anywhere you move to is hard at first...I moved to a different part of queens and that was hard lol, you just get used to your surroundings, but you do adjust quickly too.

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thanks! yea, I just can't wait till it actually happens.
I'm ready to not have to be apart from him anymore and to OFFICIALLY start our lives togther!

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Posted by DnellD809

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Posted by Espo22

I know its hard now bc at first you're not used to being away from him, but that time will come soon when you two will live together. Anywhere you move to is hard at first...I moved to a different part of queens and that was hard lol, you just get used to your surroundings, but you do adjust quickly too.

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thanks! yea, I just can't wait till it actually happens.
I'm ready to not have to be apart from him anymore and to OFFICIALLY start our lives togther!

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it'll fly by, look how fast everything is flying by...I remember saying our wedding is 22 months away close to 2 years and now im almost at the one year mark , its crazy...and the same way this time will fly by also.

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Posted by DnellD809

I love his mom...it'll definitely be good to be around her....I don't know his friends out there really at ALL...I met some of them once!
Hopefully they'll like me! haha

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good! then at least you know you'll be in a loving, supportive environment when you move..

of COURSE his friends will like you!!!

thanks!
And I know this is going to sound horrible BUT...I guess it's my insecurity!
I'm afraid he's going to realize he doesn't need me while he's out there and that things might change before I move. I dunno...like he'll move on with his life without me!
I don't know why I think that because I know he loves me so much...but it's this weird thought in my head that scares me!

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Posted by DnellD809

thanks!
And I know this is going to sound horrible BUT...I guess it's my insecurity!
I'm afraid he's going to realize he doesn't need me while he's out there and that things might change before I move. I dunno...like he'll move on with his life without me!
I don't know why I think that because I know he loves me so much...but it's this weird thought in my head that scares me!

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its very normal to think like that...But it will be the opposite, he'll realize how hard it is to live without you, dont worry

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Posted by Espo22

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Posted by DnellD809

thanks!
And I know this is going to sound horrible BUT...I guess it's my insecurity!
I'm afraid he's going to realize he doesn't need me while he's out there and that things might change before I move. I dunno...like he'll move on with his life without me!
I don't know why I think that because I know he loves me so much...but it's this weird thought in my head that scares me!

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its very normal to think like that...But it will be the opposite, he'll realize how hard it is to live without you, dont worry

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I hope so! Thank you!!!!

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Posted by DnellD809

thanks!
And I know this is going to sound horrible BUT...I guess it's my insecurity!
I'm afraid he's going to realize he doesn't need me while he's out there and that things might change before I move. I dunno...like he'll move on with his life without me!
I don't know why I think that because I know he loves me so much...but it's this weird thought in my head that scares me!

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i completely understand how you feel..i felt like that when FH got transferred to San Diego...I was afriad he was going to meet some hot model haha and move on with his life- then he proved me wrong and proposed to me haha now i am nervous about him going to Japan for a whole year...i am afriad sorry to say it that he will get lonely if you know what i mean for a whole year but i trust him completely and honestly know he wouldnt but the mind wonders and you can become insecure i know i am at times with FH but he always prove that i have nothing to worry about and i am sure Fh proves to you as well that you have nothing to be afriad of...


Good Luck but it takes time you know- and of course you got him back from Iraq and now is leaving you again and i am sure that hurts you were exciting knowing you would have him by your side for the rest of you life---but just hang in there hun and you will def make it through- you made it through while he wsa in Iraq. And I am sure you will love Denver when you get there especially since you will be with FH

AWWW I know you miss him right now but soon you will be with him and everything will be great. It will be hard at first trying to adjust to your new life but it will end up being wonderful. You will love Denver and be so happy. SMILE

i am moving too.....to seattle.....i won't lie and say your life will be super easy but you and FH will develop a very strong bond b/c you will just have each other! plus you will make friends and build a life....and denver is fun! FH's friend lives out there and loves it!

And as for him realizing he doesn't 'need' you - I think with guys 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' - I really believe that.

Second thoughts about a move are TOTALLY normal....I go through it too....