Soooo aggravated at bridesmaid...

ya know... arrggghhh.

This is the BM that was supposed to be my MOH, but she's a doctor so she's too busy, but then got married really quickly before me, yadda, yadda, yadda...

Well, I invited her parents and sister to my wedding. RSVP date: Oct. 11th. Today. Oct 25th. HAVE I GOTTEN A RESPONSE??? No.

I've called her a MILLION times. Left three VM's. E-MAILED her three times. I don't know the mom's number, or I'd call her directly (I thought I had it in my phone). Every time I stressed how important it was that I know if her parents and sister are coming so I can do tables, table cards, etc.

And this is after my friend called me a week and a half ago and left me a VM seeing how I was and saying she feels like she's been a bad friend and she wanted to see how my 'girl's night out' was.

I hope everything's okay. Assuming so, I'm PISSED. She's a BRIDESMAID and I can't even get an answer from her if her PARENTS are coming to my wedding.

I never got what was so damn hard about sending in an RSVP I'm Sorry

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Posted by moonlitee


I never got what was so damn hard about sending in an RSVP I'm Sorry

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I agree, but some people have other things on their minds besides your/our wedding[s]. Apparently we are the last to RSVP to a 3 year old's birthday party [i know, not really the same] and we got 'checked up on' today...kind of annoyed me to the point of wanting to say something mean...I refrained...but we still have a week to RSVP! Geez. If they don't RSVP on their own Sarah, assume they aren't coming and they'll look like the idiots come your wedding day!

thats gotta be soooo frustrating!!!!

How annoying! Hopefully you will hear something back soon

I know how frustrating it is do be waiting on RSVP's, but don't blame your friend for her parents and sister's actions - she is not responsible for them.
I hope you get an answer soon

I would leave her a message and let her know that since you haven't gotten an answer you'll assume they will be a 'no'.

See what happens after that.

I'm sorry, but I DO feel that your friend is responsible for them... Since you do not have a contact number for them and one of the main reasons you are inviting them is B/C of your friend as a courtesy since she is your friend and in your wedding party I think she needs to get on them about that. I mean, yes they are at fault for not sending it themselves but at this point: since you have left emails, voicemails and called a bunch-- maybe the parents and sister completely forgot but since the FRIEND has not reminded them (after she got a zillion calls) that could be why they have not sent it in yet.

Bottom line, they are really rude for not sending the RSVP back and your friend, no matter how busy she is, could take FIVE seconds to call them, ask if they are coming, call you and tell you YAY OR NAY! As your friend and since it is HER family-- it is the LEAST she could do! How hard is it?!

UGH