Soooo annoyed... VENT

OK, I love my FSIL, I think she's great and we get along so well! She recently (this summer) moved from Boston to down here and is living in Brooklyn. When she first moved down here and was trying to find an apt. she was staying with a friend in Brooklyn during the week and then on the weekend she would stay out with me & FH (W.Bab). That was fine, I totally didn't mind, I just felt bad for her because all we had for her to sleep on was our couch (our apt isn't really made for 3). Anyway, the whole entire month of September (I'm not even exagerating here), every weekend we had someone staying in our apt (FSIL and one of FH's GM's... I don't like him). Fine, I'm a gracious host and want to make everyone feel welcome, but by the end of the month, I was going crazy because I couldn't even walk around my apt. naked if I wanted to because someone was always there! So I said to FH, that for the whole month of Oct. I want no house guests, I just need a break, he said fine, he understands, he gets it.
Cut to this morning....
I get an e-mail from FSIL... she's coming this weekend because they're painting her apt. WHAT?! I texted FH to ask if he knew this which he totally did but 'forgot' to tell me. It's not like I would've said 'no, she cant' come' but at least give me the heads up.... I live there too! Let me say also, we're not the only place that FSIL can shack up at. She has a friend who lives right around the block from her in Brooklyn, her cousin in Jersey and another friend out here on the Island.
I think I'm just annoyed that FH didn't even fill me in on this and he KNEW that I needed a break from the houseguests.

Vent over. Thanks!

ugh that stinks!!!!

aww sorry to hear that u are going through that...just go out the whole weekend ...or stay with one of ur friends ! good excuse to have fun!

I do actually have plans tomorrow night that I don't plan on cancelling.
The thing is, is that I really do enjoy hanging out with her, but it's the constant house guest and FH just totally ingnoring my wanting the house to ourselves for a few weeks.

oooooooooooooooooooh i get sooo angry when FH does that!! and it is OFTEN!~

i feel ur pain

i dont kno how to help ya on it..just...i kno how annoyed u are!!

okie happy friday..have a few at happy hour!