sooooo much stress and arguments with my fiance!!1

adrianasaborio Posted: Aug 01, 2007 02:30 AM

sooooo much stress and arguments with my fiance!!1

Okay so I have had sooo much stress lately and so many arguments with my fiance. It's like if we disagree on something it turns into a big argument. It seems that everything I do is just wrong. I don't want to keep on arguing. It's hurting me a ton. any advice??

charisma Posted: Aug 01, 2007 02:50 AM

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i think all of us can relate to your problem, it is definatley the stress that comes with all the planning, especially the closer you get...Just try to remember this union means for you & FH, some of the arguments are not even worth it...hope this helps...here's some

MF9282 Posted: Aug 01, 2007 05:59 AM

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Well FH and I whom never argued! I have argued more then we ever have the closer the wedding gets. I wish I had good advice, but hopefully it will pass and mb you can tell him you have A LOT on your plate and if he can please be more understanding and sensative to your feelings?

Good luck!

August12 Posted: Aug 01, 2007 08:03 AM

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Yes we can relate!!!!

My FH keeps saying 'I cant wait until August 13'
(day after our wedding!) which upsets me because I have put so much hard work into this and he cant wait until the next day- like he has so much stress- puhleasssseeee!

lilqtpie2181 Posted: Aug 01, 2007 08:29 AM

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for a while we were like that too but then we realized that its just not worth it. There are much more important things in life that we take for granted rather that what color napkins are we picking and places cards ya know?! i hope this time blows over for you guys! Good Luck

0707Bride Posted: Aug 01, 2007 08:40 AM

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Posted by August12

Yes we can relate!!!!

My FH keeps saying 'I cant wait until August 13'
(day after our wedding!) which upsets me because I have put so much hard work into this and he cant wait until the next day- like he has so much stress- puhleasssseeee!

FH used to say that all of the time. I HATED it!

Lizzie913 Posted: Aug 01, 2007 08:53 AM

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Posted by 0707Bride

Posted by August12

Yes we can relate!!!!

My FH keeps saying 'I cant wait until August 13'
(day after our wedding!) which upsets me because I have put so much hard work into this and he cant wait until the next day- like he has so much stress- puhleasssseeee!

FH used to say that all of the time. I HATED it!

My FH date is August 12! The day we leave for the honeymoon.

We definitely fought A LOT over the most meaningless things (a lot NWR). WE both realized this and sat and talked. We put everyting out on the table and discussed them. WE promised one and other we would not get angry during the conversation.

It WORKED! The wedding is in ten days and we have not been arguing with each other. I am finally ENJOYING the planning.

So my advice. Sit, and talk. If you feel like either one of you is gettting upset, take a break and calm down. Then resume the conversation.

Let me know how it goes!

Lemons Posted: Aug 01, 2007 09:04 AM

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Oh man I hate that you are going through this but Im glad you posted because I really thought it was just me dealing with this! The closer it gets to the wedding is the more and more we fight!

monelwookie Posted: Aug 01, 2007 09:19 AM

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Posted by adrianasaborio

Okay so I have had sooo much stress lately and so many arguments with my fiance. It's like if we disagree on something it turns into a big argument. It seems that everything I do is just wrong. I don't want to keep on arguing. It's hurting me a ton. any advice??

i think its all the stress from the planning...FH and I have been at each others throats for a while, and last weekend i almost called the whole thing off (thats how bad it got). But now we are trying to work through it...and just look foreward to our BIG DAY....

LuckiestGirl Posted: Aug 01, 2007 09:21 AM

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Its all just stress me and the FH have been have fights over such stupid things.

And when I think about it the fights stem from such stupid things that normaly wouldnt escalate that far.

Summer07Bride Posted: Aug 01, 2007 09:36 AM

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I think it is completely normal. Right before the wedding, I felt like DH turned everything into an argument. IT was so frustrating, but I think it was just the way he released his nerves.

Future Mrs. Posted: Aug 01, 2007 10:38 AM

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can totally relate!!!!!!!!! And I'm sure it doesn't help when people say....'Oh...this is the happiest time of your life....'
This is actually a very stressful (good stress) but stressful nonetheless time.
All of this WILL go away. Its just a matter of getting though it ......
I think that EVERYONE goes through this....that is why there is an engagement period.
Wedding planning is a practice run for real life.