sooo...stressed! UPDATE!!!
soooo....remember my last post about FINALLY changing my date to april 26, 2008?? well, as i told a few of u at the GTG...last night, right as i was about to leave to go out for the GTG, my father called me and said he was talking to the pastor at my church on the phone. The pastor told him that we would prob not be able to book my church on april 26, 08 because.....when he looked in the book for THIS year, that is the week that first communions are scheduled....soooo...they will most likely be scheduled that same week for next year (of course he did not know for sure, but that was his speculation). originally when we has asked for that date we had spoken with the deacon who told us it was free! there was NO mention of first communion!!! sooo...naturally we did not think it was going to be a problem. but now the pastor is suggesting we find a new date!
i really dont want to have to switch back to May (even thoough i love the idea of may it is 6K more!! i really dont think i should spent that much extra $!) so now i am stuck again!! i really have my heart set on getting married in the church i grew up in....but the problem is....they are really being so difficult! (betweeen possibly interfering with a funeral during our AM ceremony and now THIS!?) i just dont know what to do anymore.....so now....it looks like we may have to push the wedding forward another 2 weeks to April 12th. I just PRAY the weather is alright then. i really wanted the end of april or may b/c the weather would prob be nicer and the weather in Italy (for our honeymoon is more likely to be nice as well). I have heard that April is still cool in italy. but May is supposed to be nice. SO it's either we switch to April 12th...or...keep it at April 26 and find a new church (which breaks my heart)....or spend 6K more to have the wedding in May (original plan....but FH really really does not want to spend that much and i kinda feel the same way).
ANY MORAL SUPPORT WOULD BE MUCH APPRECIATED! i was so excitied 2 days ago when we thought we made our final plans....now i am really so sick of this wedding stuff right now, i want to cry!!![]()
(sorry this was SOOO long)
****UPDATE***** sooooo....finally....the pastor at the church called us back and said that he can do april 12, 2008! sooooo...that is now my new date (this BETTER be the FINAL after all this drama). CLM has it on hold for us so we will call them tomorrow to confirm. (Denises eparty is there tonight so they will be too busy now anyway). and, the cool part about having it then is that Rachelle (Shell84) is also having her reception there on the same day. her CH starts an hour before my reception ends so we will see each other! and i just met her last night! (how funny). also...our CH will now start an hour later with this date so we will have more time in between to take pics! wooohoo!! now i pray that nothing else goes wrong to mess this up again!
i really dont want to have to switch back to May (even thoough i love the idea of may it is 6K more!! i really dont think i should spent that much extra $!) so now i am stuck again!! i really have my heart set on getting married in the church i grew up in....but the problem is....they are really being so difficult! (betweeen possibly interfering with a funeral during our AM ceremony and now THIS!?) i just dont know what to do anymore.....so now....it looks like we may have to push the wedding forward another 2 weeks to April 12th. I just PRAY the weather is alright then. i really wanted the end of april or may b/c the weather would prob be nicer and the weather in Italy (for our honeymoon is more likely to be nice as well). I have heard that April is still cool in italy. but May is supposed to be nice. SO it's either we switch to April 12th...or...keep it at April 26 and find a new church (which breaks my heart)....or spend 6K more to have the wedding in May (original plan....but FH really really does not want to spend that much and i kinda feel the same way).
ANY MORAL SUPPORT WOULD BE MUCH APPRECIATED! i was so excitied 2 days ago when we thought we made our final plans....now i am really so sick of this wedding stuff right now, i want to cry!!
(sorry this was SOOO long)
****UPDATE***** sooooo....finally....the pastor at the church called us back and said that he can do april 12, 2008! sooooo...that is now my new date (this BETTER be the FINAL after all this drama). CLM has it on hold for us so we will call them tomorrow to confirm. (Denises eparty is there tonight so they will be too busy now anyway). and, the cool part about having it then is that Rachelle (Shell84) is also having her reception there on the same day. her CH starts an hour before my reception ends so we will see each other! and i just met her last night! (how funny). also...our CH will now start an hour later with this date so we will have more time in between to take pics! wooohoo!! now i pray that nothing else goes wrong to mess this up again!
