I'm glad you're back. we were all asking about you.
FutureMrsCat050412
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Yay Jillian is back!!!!!!!
I'm so glad to see you so happy! You deserve the best! I'm so glad things turned out ok. We have all been thinking about you!
W-E-L-C-O-M-E....B-A-C-K!!!!!
FutureMrsGTL
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Yayyyyy Jillian!!!! welcome back!!!!!!!!
I'm so glad you guys are working it out!!!!!
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chrisandjeanne
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Yayyyy!!!! I'm soo glad you guys are back together and the wedding is back on!!!!!!! Congrats!!!
jhines4684
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Yea, I read your post a while ago and I couldn't comment because I don't know you, lol, but I felt angry for you (weird, but you'll get like that with this board, i certainly have).
I'm glad you 2 worked it out. And I hope your FH will watch his drinking from now on.
My FH is horrible when he drinks...a few months ago he got loaded at a wedding and treated me like total crap the whole way home, calling me stupid and a college dropout. The next day he swears he didn't remember a thing and even I had some second thoughts for a few days there. Fh cried too, something he never does, so I know he was literally not remembering the night before.
When you love someone, you'll own up, and I believe your FH is doing is best to show you that it was a mistake, and you are showing him by being forgiving which is a very hard thing to do for something like that.
StaceyWill
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I'm so happy you guys worked it out!!!!
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I'm so happy you guys worked it out!!!!
ditto
MrsJPH2012
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Jillian I'm so glad to have you back, and it sounds like you are feeling wonderful. That was a real test of faith there and I hope you know everyone is here for you and glad you're so happy again.
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Glad that your back
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Posted by S00n2beWifey
GOING TO BE SEEING ALOT MORE OF ME AROUND HEA!!
After much deliberation, anger, saddness, tears, happiness, smiling and somehow again laughter, I have made a decision...and FH and I ... ARE BACK TOGETHER!!!
My conclusion came about a week after the horrible event occured. FH and I were talking and he was so desperate and willing to do whatever it took to get me back. He cried almost everyday I was gone (and FH NEVER cries!). I guess my decision was easy when I thought about my life without him at all. I dont know what I would do. Regardless of the situation we are everything to each other and I really feel deep down that it was a mistake, a big BIG mistake, but a mistake nonetheless. I moved my stuff back in and things have never been better. Its so weird to say but for some reason we are 10 times closer than we ever were (and weve been together for 4 1/2 years!). Many a time I found myself thinking, is this what marriage is all about? Overcoming these obstacles no matter what the issue? I think so. And we made it through. I still love him every day more and more and he has always felt the same about me. Also FH is beyond kissing my butt for weeks now!! Im guna see what else I can get him to do hahahaah jk --I have truly taught him a lesson by now and I KNOW hes learned it!
..but last and certainly not least, I couldnt have done it without all you girls and guys on this board. I will never forget how comforting everyone was to me on here and the amazing advice I got from all of you when I felt like I had no where to turn! I love you all!!!
Now enough about me... WHATS GOING ONNN ON THE 12 BOARDS!!!!!! HEHEHEHEH ITS GOOD TO BE BACK !
YAAAAYYYYYY!!! I'm so happy you guys are working it out and you're back! We've all been wondering what you were up to, so welcome back!!!
Mommy2BeBride
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YAY! Congrats on fixing everything & back onto the planning!
S00n2beWifey
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Thanks so much girls it means a lot to me to hear you all welcome me back!! It feels great!!
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Posted by jhines4684
Yea, I read your post a while ago and I couldn't comment because I don't know you, lol, but I felt angry for you (weird, but you'll get like that with this board, i certainly have).
I'm glad you 2 worked it out. And I hope your FH will watch his drinking from now on.
My FH is horrible when he drinks...a few months ago he got loaded at a wedding and treated me like total crap the whole way home, calling me stupid and a college dropout. The next day he swears he didn't remember a thing and even I had some second thoughts for a few days there. Fh cried too, something he never does, so I know he was literally not remembering the night before.
When you love someone, you'll own up, and I believe your FH is doing is best to show you that it was a mistake, and you are showing him by being forgiving which is a very hard thing to do for something like that.
Its so good to hear you say this, it makes me feel like I am not the only one this has happened to! .. I am sorry you went through this though, I know what it feels like and it is terrible! Thank you for your input it means a lot!
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I'm not a '12 bride...but I *did* read your original post and I am glad to hear that you were able to work through everything. It's always nice to hear that it's still possible for people to make mistakes...and be forgiven
FutureMrsPena622
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YAY you're back!!!
CrystalP81
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Aww.... So glad to hear that you two worked things out! Welcome back. Now get to planning! We've only got 2 years to get everything done! lol