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Spaghetti straps at church???

jenny2penny Posted:

Spaghetti straps at church???

Did your church not mind or did you need a wrap???

maysie18 Posted:

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I'm wearing spaghetti straps - my church hasn't even asked me about anything like that.

jenny2penny Posted:

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The sheet they gave us said, 'modest attire..no bare shoulders'.

Do you think I will have a problem, since the veil covers my shoulders????
maysie18 Posted:

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If the veil is covering your shoulders, I'd think you'd be OK. I think that'll be fine! Is this a catholic church if you don't mind me asking?

jenny2penny Posted:

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yes, catholic

maysie18 Posted:

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What month are you getting married? I think you'll be OK. I don't think they'd like throw you out on your wedding day for that since you'll have spaghetti straps.

Boop2704 Posted:

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I was once told not to mention to your church if you are wearing a strapless dress. Unless they ask you shouldn't ask them. What are they going to do on the day of the wedding, turn you away. If they don't mention it to you, Don't bring it up.

jenny2penny Posted:

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getting married labor day weekend, september.

I just have a fear the priest will make a remark or something. (at FSIL wedding, she had the same priest and he made a joke at the groom's expense--don't know why he thought it was funny...I'd hate for that to happen to me because of this.)
Diane Posted:

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I had a halter top, and they didnt mind.

dandj Posted:

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I got married in a Greek church which said the same thing, but I wore spaghetti straps with no veil and no one said anything. What were they going to do? Send me home??? It was July and it was hot.

Janice Posted:

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I had spaghetti straps and they made me wear a wrap.
Janice Posted:

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I had spaghetti straps and the parish rules were taht I needed a wrap

pschica Posted:

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i am strapless so i hope they won't have a problem!

MrsTC Posted:

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Wow I never even considered that! They didn't say anything to us either.....my dress is strapless but my veil covers my back and shoulders.

pschica Posted:

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thinking now b/c of this post, i am going with 'don't ask don't tell' - this way no added stress for me!!

xjulietx Posted:

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Maybe you should find a wrap to have, just in case.

jenny2penny Posted:

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yeah I guess i will get one in case....do you even see the priest before you walk down the aisle????

HearzBellz Posted:

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I need to keep my shoulders covered if I want to apporach the altar (and the priest doesn't even know about my tattoos
jennbaby Posted:

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Ask your church, i went strapless he said just no cleavage
NovBride Posted:

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It didn't say anything in my guide book but I am bringing a wrap just in case. Did anyone else get a rule book for their church?

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