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Speaking of chuppahs ...

Original post by MrsBrad

Is it wrong to get one, if you are not jewish? I just think they are so pretty.

MrsK-in-June05 Posted:

Re: Speaking of chuppahs ...

The chuppah is a decorated piece of cloth held aloft as a symbolic home for the new couple. It is usually held outside, under the stars, as a sign of the blessing given by G-d to the patriarch Abraham, that his children shall be 'as the stars of the heavens.' The groom is accompanied to the chuppah by his parents, and usually wears a white robe, known as a kittel, to indicate the fact that for the bride and groom, life is starting anew with a clean white slate, since they are uniting to become a new entity, without past sins. In fact, the bride and groom usually fast on the day of the wedding (until the chuppah) since for them it is like Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement. While the bride comes to the chuppah with her parents, a cantor sings a selection from the Song of Songs, and the groom prays that his unmarried friends find their true partners in life.
When the bride arrives at the chuppah she circles the groom seven times with her mother and future mother-in-law, while the groom continues to pray. This symbolizes the idea of the woman being a protective, surrounding light of the household, that illuminates it with understanding and love from within and protects it from harm from the outside. The number seven parallels the seven days of creation, and symbolizes the fact that the bride and groom are about to create their own 'new world' together.

Under the chuppah, an honored Rabbi or family member then recites a blessing over wine, and a blessing that praises and thanks G-d for giving us laws of sanctity and morality to preserve the sanctity of family life and of the Jewish people. The bride and groom then drink from the wine. The blessings are recited over wine, since wine is symbolic of life: it begins as grape-juice, goes through fermentation, during which it is sour, but in the end turns into a superior product that brings joy, and has a wonderful taste. The full cup of wine also symbolizes the overflowing of Divine blessing, as in the verse in Psalms, 'My cup runneth over.'

Found that on the web for you. A chuppah is allegedly made out of a tallis that the groom will wear for his entired married life, hence the chuppah symbolizes a jewish home. If your 'chuppah' is technically an arch than it is fine, otherwise it is not technically right to use it.

MrsK-in-June05 Posted:

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jenniesunshine: not a chuppah gf, a chuppah must have 4 columns! it looks gorgeous!

MrsBrad Posted:

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thanks for all the help (and education) -- i guess i opened up an interesting topic...

whatever i do, i will stick with 2 columns - not 4
MrsK-in-June05 Posted:

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I hope it was not too much info...but I am that jewish person who prefers christmas. Tree and all!
MrsBrad Posted:

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Posted by MrsKinMay05

I hope it was not too much info...but I am that jewish person who prefers christmas. Tree and all!



not too much at all
1017Bride Posted:

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I'm sorry I have to agree. I am also Jewish and feel that the Chuppah is a religious symbol and should just be used as such.

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