Speaking of irrational....anyone ....

leese Posted: Feb 10, 2006 01:52 PM

Speaking of irrational....anyone ....

have irrational fears about how they'll look on their wedding day?

my only fear (not sure if it's irrational) is that my arms will look huge and ugly when i'm up at the altar facing my FH. i think about how to try to make them look smaller all the time.

kissy27 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 01:57 PM

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I am right here with you leese!!! I keep having these envisions of having huge arms & people making comments!!!

spring06bride Posted: Feb 10, 2006 01:59 PM

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uh, yes, that my arms will jiggle, that i will have back fat AND that i will look like a football player from the back. talk about irrational.

JessicaM. Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:00 PM

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I keep feeling like I will look like ba big fat clown

mtdr1106 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:01 PM

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i have a big smile - and sometimes when i smile TOO BIG it give me a fat looking face. totally trying to nail the 'perfect' smile before november....

SomethingBlu Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:02 PM

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Yes, I was afraid that I would look like a cow (and rightly so because I was lazy about working out and dieting) and ugly. I was so scared of having an 'ugly face' day...

Luckily, my MIL told me (after I freaked out in her house) that every bride is gorgeous on her wedding day and proceeded to share a story (she has tons of those) about a bride from her town who was so ugly no one thought she would ever get married...well, someone proposed and the whole town was anticipating her day to see if it was true, if every bride is gorgeous. And sure enough, she looked like a princess that day and all everyone could say was how great she looked.

Then she said to me 'luckily, you're already beautiful, so imagine how much more beautiful you'll look'... I say the same to you (all eyes will be on your beautiful face!)...

Have no fear...you will look beautiful and so will your arms...

JXNOscar Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:11 PM

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I have white spots on my chest and I am afraid everyone will notice them
your arms will look great and so will you

leese Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:20 PM

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Posted by spring06bride

uh, yes, that my arms will jiggle, that i will have back fat AND that i will look like a football player from the back. talk about irrational.

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ooo...yes, i have to add about my backfat....
i def. have worries there!

M&S Sept12006 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:22 PM

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Jiggly arms...and that when I smile (whic always shows in pictures) one tooth will always shine...sometimes I look like I have a silver cap on!

SomethingBlu Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:23 PM

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Posted by leese

Posted by spring06bride

uh, yes, that my arms will jiggle, that i will have back fat AND that i will look like a football player from the back. talk about irrational.

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ooo...yes, i have to add about my backfat....
i def. have worries there!

Girl, you're much smaller than me...and as fat as I felt...the photographers know how to position you. You'll be gorgeous!!

hmpena Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:30 PM

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I had the same worries about my arms... I look at some of my pics and hate how they look. I definitely did not exercise as much as I should have before the wedding.

BKtoLI Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:31 PM

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Yes, that I will be breaking out like a mad woman all over the place including a huge pimple in the center of my nose that no amount of make up will cover up. (And trust me, this is very possible, I will be PMSing my wedding day!)

Oh yeah that, and tripping or spilling something on my dress. I'm a klutz!

spring06bride Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:37 PM

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Posted by BKtoLI

Yes, that I will be breaking out like a mad woman all over the place including a huge pimple in the center of my nose that no amount of make up will cover up. (And trust me, this is very possible, I will be PMSing my wedding day!)

Oh yeah that, and tripping or spilling something on my dress. I'm a klutz!

OMG the gigantic cystic pimple on the nose!!! Thank god for cortizone shots!

nygirl77 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:41 PM

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Posted by BKtoLI

Yes, that I will be breaking out like a mad woman all over the place including a huge pimple in the center of my nose that no amount of make up will cover up. (And trust me, this is very possible, I will be PMSing my wedding day!)

Oh yeah that, and tripping or spilling something on my dress. I'm a klutz!

I second the breakout fear - my period will just be ending. And my arms - I have muscles, but jiggle also. Blah.

GsCM4EVA Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:45 PM

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YES.
I fear I will look HUGE in my tulle dress..
i have rashes on my arms that i hope to get rid of ( i have very sens skin)
i hope i dont smear my makeup wheni cry hysterically LOL

Preshy7 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 02:53 PM

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-breakout
-that my makeup will look bad
all my worries are about my face not looking pretty

as for arms, as long as you dont hold them against you, your arms will look great

anyones arms held againt them will look bad

klingklang77 Posted: Feb 10, 2006 03:02 PM

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i worry about a big pimple or break out that day or days beforehand. i am also worried that i will be so nervous that i will pass out.

CJStein Posted: Feb 10, 2006 03:03 PM

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I fear the arms as well..hence the hundreds of triceps exercises I've been doing. They'll still never be as cut as I want them.

I am also afraid of my long face looking even longer in my pics.....