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Speaking of irrational....anyone ....

Original post by leese

have irrational fears about how they'll look on their wedding day?

my only fear (not sure if it's irrational) is that my arms will look huge and ugly when i'm up at the altar facing my FH. i think about how to try to make them look smaller all the time.
drtrish03 Posted:

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Posted by leese

have irrational fears about how they'll look on their wedding day?

my only fear (not sure if it's irrational) is that my arms will look huge and ugly when i'm up at the altar facing my FH. i think about how to try to make them look smaller all the time.



HELLO! I am soooo with you on this one. Definitely my biggest fear.

My other fear is that I'll look at the video after all is said and done and notice that during the ceremony I'm doing the whiteman's overbite thing as I'm dancing!
JPCP4806 Posted:

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Posted by kissy27

I am right here with you leese!!! I keep having these envisions of having huge arms & people making comments!!!




I thought I was the only one!!!!!
cindyandkevin Posted:

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Yes, I'm afraid with all the stress and nerves I'm going to break out like the day before. Or be burned red instead of a nice golden tan.

I'm also afraid of tripping down the aisle or not being used to the big dress and falling when I go to sit down.
thefirstlady Posted:

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Posted by spring06bride

uh, yes, that my arms will jiggle, that i will have back fat AND that i will look like a football player from the back. talk about irrational.



spring06bride--- I love your ring!!!
JennylovesBrian Posted:

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I am scared that my face will break out, and I will get my period...
MrsD06 Posted:

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Posted by Preshy7

-breakout
-that my makeup will look bad
all my worries are about my face not looking pretty

as for arms, as long as you dont hold them against you, your arms will look great

anyones arms held againt them will look bad



Me, too..exactly what you said and also that my hair will look horrible
spring06bride Posted:

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Posted by thefirstlady


Posted by spring06bride

uh, yes, that my arms will jiggle, that i will have back fat AND that i will look like a football player from the back. talk about irrational.



spring06bride--- I love your ring!!!



aww thank you soooo much! i love it too.
BlueTulip Posted:

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Yes, I was afraid that I would look like a cow (and rightly so because I was lazy about working out and dieting) and ugly. I was so scared of having an 'ugly face' day...

Luckily, my MIL told me (after I freaked out in her house) that every bride is gorgeous on her wedding day and proceeded to share a story (she has tons of those) about a bride from her town who was so ugly no one thought she would ever get married...well, someone proposed and the whole town was anticipating her day to see if it was true, if every bride is gorgeous. And sure enough, she looked like a princess that day and all everyone could say was how great she looked.




Is your MIL Sophia from Golden Girls??? How cute!
bridy06 Posted:

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COLD SORE!!!

So scared!
SomethingBlu Posted:

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Posted by BlueTulip


Posted by SomethingBlu

Yes, I was afraid that I would look like a cow (and rightly so because I was lazy about working out and dieting) and ugly. I was so scared of having an 'ugly face' day...

Luckily, my MIL told me (after I freaked out in her house) that every bride is gorgeous on her wedding day and proceeded to share a story (she has tons of those) about a bride from her town who was so ugly no one thought she would ever get married...well, someone proposed and the whole town was anticipating her day to see if it was true, if every bride is gorgeous. And sure enough, she looked like a princess that day and all everyone could say was how great she looked.




Is your MIL Sophia from Golden Girls??? How cute!



No...but she's from a tiny town in an island and has TONS of colorful stories...love her!
hmpena Posted:

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Posted by bridy06

COLD SORE!!!

So scared!



This was my biggest fear as well, since 2 months before the wedding I had 5 cold sores in 4 weeks! I started taking Valtrex every day and luckily, didn't get one.
bridy06 Posted:

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Posted by hmpena


Posted by bridy06

COLD SORE!!!

So scared!



This was my biggest fear as well, since 2 months before the wedding I had 5 cold sores in 4 weeks! I started taking Valtrex every day and luckily, didn't get one.



how far away from your wedding did you begin taking Valtrex.

PS: you pics are beautiful!
AlliNMatt06 Posted:

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Posted by BKtoLI

Yes, that I will be breaking out like a mad woman all over the place including a huge pimple in the center of my nose that no amount of make up will cover up. (And trust me, this is very possible, I will be PMSing my wedding day!)

Oh yeah that, and tripping or spilling something on my dress. I'm a klutz!



Me too! I am so worried about breaking out.
DanaRenee Posted:

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I'm worried about my nose running from crying at the church...and me having to blow it :-/ Not good!

M&S Sept12006 Posted:

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Posted by DKURIN1017

I'm worried about my nose running from crying at the church...and me having to blow it :-/ Not good!




Thats is so funny and so cute!
Mrs. Powell Posted:

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I was mostly worried about my makeup not looking good. On the day it was very flawless and pretty.

beautyq115 Posted:

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Oh definetely...I am afraid of not getting enough sleep the night before or waking up to a zit on my face like in My Big Fat Greek Wedding...and I will try Windex if that happens!
sarahthegreat Posted:

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i'm most worried about boogies....i hate snot and no one needs to see it on my big day

nickipa Posted:

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lets see...here are a few
-turning BRIGHT red....im an easy blusher!
-a pimple (i get them with stress!!!)
-my make up not looking right
Kiddo115 Posted:

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Posted by kissy27

I am right here with you leese!!! I keep having these envisions of having huge arms & people making comments!!!



You are out of your mind missy! Your arms look wonderful, and you are a skinny thing! Everyone is going to be staring at you because you look STUNNING

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