Speaking of responses, guess what I just got in the mail yesterday?

Aw Swags, I'm so happy that I helped you with that. I'm glad you ended up using it, I'm honored

On the upside ladies, I got a card today from someone who's not coming, and it had $100 in it

that's what happened at my engagement party. about 6 or 7 people from groom's list decided within the week prior to the party that they weren't coming. only 2 of them called. fi's mom knew about a few of them but didn't tell me. 2 from my parent's side cancelled the last minute. how annoying!! they better not pull this at the wedding when we are paying per person!

one guy from groom's list from nj called up my parents and demanded that he get a map of long island sent to him since he has no idea where it is. then he ended up cancelling 5 days beforehand.