Have you ever consider surgery (plastic, etc) just so you can look perfect in your wedding dress?
I will be very honest and please don't judge but I have. I need reduction regardless if I was getting married or not but the idea that I will never be comfortable or happy with the way the dress will look if I don't.
thoughts?
jwleewedding
Posted:
Member since
Re: Spin-off from Yesterday Question
i honestly think you should do what makes you happy. we live in a day and age where looks matter more than anything else, so if you feel that you'll be happier and more comfortable if you had to get some work done, then i say do it. as long as it isn't anything major, meaning, you do something that alters your appearance so much that it no longer looks like you.
WeezyGirl2354
Posted:
Member since
Re: Spin-off from Yesterday Question
I've never thought about it seriously - im all for doing what makes you happy and comfortable but I am not in favor for those who do it for other people or b/c they want to look good in the eyes of other people.
If you are really doing it for yourself then that's all that really matters - though I'm also a feminist and think you should be happy with whatever you have been given but some times life isn't that black and white.
mybabylovesmoi
Posted:
Member since
Re: Spin-off from Yesterday Question
A friend of mine got a reduction and they looked great. I think if something really bothers you, it is okay to change it. The case is different if you are not happy withyourself overall and want a whole lotta shiet done.
Like I said yesterday, I've always wanted boob impants but the issue doesn't plague me since I have cute boobs now. Small but cute. If I absolutely hated them, I'd have been more serious about saving the money a couple years ago.
FutureJOC
Posted:
Member since
Re: Spin-off from Yesterday Question
the only situation where i would really consider it is if I had some diwsfiguartion of some sort or some nasty scar in a place that would be visible on the day of the wedding, I would probably spend money to get it removed/fix/ whatever. But I wouldn't do something like get lipo or some kind of reduction to let's say fit in the wedding dress of my dreams, Like if i had my heart set on Mermaid style but my body type just doesn't look right in it (which btw it doens't... big a$$ over here!) I would go and **** the fat out of my a$$ just to look good in it. I would just find a dress that suits my body type,
