So one couple gave us $318 for the wedding, they are not Jewish but they knew that 18 meant chai and was good luck, etc. etc. Anyways, their wedding is in a month (unfortunately we cannot attend because we'll be on our HM) but what do we give them---$318 back? They aren't Jewish! Do we just give $300 or round to 320? I feel strange giving $318 to people getting married in a church!
MrsC2010
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i think like $320 or $325 is good!
flibbertigibbet
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... even if she's not going?!
AwaitingAugust
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we got between $50 and $200 from our no's. I'd probably give $200-ish since they were generous at your wedding.
def not a multiple of 18, though ... as you said, it's weird to give that to people getting married in a church.
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Okay thanks guys, think I may just go with the $325, sounds nice and round!
We actually received the same amount as we gave to 2 couples that couldn't make it to our wedding, so I don't think I'll adjust even though we can't attend.
ikcin98
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I think I would just go with $300
summerbride20
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Yeah, it was nice of them to do the $18 but I wouldn't reciprocate that part, as they are not Jewish. I would give $300 or $325.