The other post got me thinking. Do you guys really care about your FH's bachelor parties? What I mean is, will you give him a do's and don'ts list? Or, not let him have one at all?
I personally, want FH to have a bachelor party. Full with drinking, gambling and strippers. I think it's a once in a lifetime experience for a guy. JMHO
Because Lord knows I'm having all of the above at my bachelorette party
tracy2246
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I want him to get on a plane and party his arse off-hot girls, big boobs...he is just looking anyway. I agree that it is once in a lifetime and I am not his mom-who am I to give a list of do's and dont's. I know he has a very fine idea of what crosses the line-and that still has nothing to do with me but more to do with the person he is.
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I look at it as a rite of passage. Although I don't want to know what goes on there, I also trust him enough not to stress over what I can't (or don't want to) control.
As for my party - I just want a lame dinner out with my girlfriends with some fun dancing!
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I agree, I hope my FH has a great one. They are talking about going to Vegas and I want him to. I trust him.
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I want my FI to have the time of his life. I do understand the male bonding of a strip club, drinking, gambling, etc. I think its ok, hey I don't mind doing it, why should I care what he does. I also feel the shower, registering, flowers, etc are more about the bride, so here's his chance to have a kicking time.
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I honestly can't imagine FH NOT having a bachelor party. I think it will be a blast for him and his brothers/friends, and I actually feel a little sorry for him - he is not into the whole stripper thing, but his GM are, so he is SO getting a stripper (and knowing his brother, I bet she will be nasty).
As long as it isn't the night before the wedding, I am aOK with a bachelor party
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I dont care what he does and i agree w/ you- its a boys tradition and it should be a BLAST!!
My rules: no sucking of anything and no kissing of anything. Other than that- have a blast!!!
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as far as I am concered he can do what ever he wants- he knows how to behave
telling him not to do something is asking him to do it
I want him to have fun-
ChrissynRicky
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I could CARE LESS what he does and how 'dirty' it gets. He's not the one that plans it, his BM or or GM's plan it, and I trust him and his boys.
I expect to have just as or even more of a 'dirty' BP. WHOOOO HOOOOO!
He's doing Vegas, I'm doing Vegas as well. No holds bars baby!
I know that in the end, that is the man that's going to be there at the altar waiting for me to take that sacred vow of marriage.
A BP doesn't encourage a person to CHEAT...a person encourages themself to do so.
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I really offered to get my poor fh strippers. two- twins redhead and a blonde big boobs nice legs.
all he's going to do is look and I hope he has a blast. I want his friends to take him to Amsterdam. I want him to rock out and hold nothing (except his penis LOL) back. that's what I intend to do, and I want him to smile every time he thinks about it.
and smile even bigger b/c he's coming home to me...where the BEST and FREE lovin is at!
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Posted by ChristineAE
I could CARE LESS what he does and how 'dirty' it gets. He's not the one that plans it, his BM or or GM's plan it, and I trust him and his boys.
I expect to have just as or even more of a 'dirty' BP. WHOOOO HOOOOO!
He's doing Vegas, I'm doing Vegas as well. No holds bars baby!
I know that in the end, that is the man that's going to be there at the altar waiting for me to take that sacred vow of marriage.
A BP doesn't encourage a person to CHEAT...a person encourages themself to do so.
Can I come to yours?????
chikita315
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Posted by conigs25
My rules: no sucking of anything and no kissing of anything. Other than that- have a blast!!!
ChrissynRicky
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Posted by chikita315
Posted by ChristineAE
I could CARE LESS what he does and how 'dirty' it gets. He's not the one that plans it, his BM or or GM's plan it, and I trust him and his boys.
I expect to have just as or even more of a 'dirty' BP. WHOOOO HOOOOO!
He's doing Vegas, I'm doing Vegas as well. No holds bars baby!
I know that in the end, that is the man that's going to be there at the altar waiting for me to take that sacred vow of marriage.
A BP doesn't encourage a person to CHEAT...a person encourages themself to do so.
Can I come to yours?????
OF COURSE!!!! EVERYONE and their mother can come! Believe me, we are DOING IT UP!
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My only rule for him, and he knows it, is NO PROSTITUTES!!! Strippers are 'tradition' but theres a diff between inviting a stripper and a stripper who does more.
We agreed.
leese
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I don't care.
I trust him.
Now me on the other hand.....
kissy27
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I completely trust him! I want him to have the time of his life! He very rarely goes out with just the guys (they all have different schedules) so it is a great stress reliever for them!
hsacks23r
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You girls know what I think so I am not even going to respond to anything that you girls have written. BUt you can just imagine what I am thinking
thefirstlady
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I definitly don't care what he does on his party, I totally trust him (wouldn't marry him if I didn't!!) and he deserves it! He keeps saying 'It's your day, pick what you want' so that will be his night or weekend- whatever they decide. They were talking about Vegas and I hope they go for that cause I wanna go to MIAMI BABY!