Spinoff to Bachelor Party Poll

OK, I may get myself in trouble here but I would love an opinion from all the ladies, and the guys too.

The situation is that your FH is having a bachelor party, do you give him any restrictions, like no strippers, etc., or do you trust him enough to do what he wants and make the right decisions.

I asked my FH to look, but not touch. And if he does touch, I don't want to know about it. Hopefully they'll just go to a strip club, where touching doesn't usually happen. I trust him, though, and my two older brothers will be there, so I'm sure everything will be fine. I do want him to have fun.

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Posted by kel2004

I asked my FH to look, but not touch. And if he does touch, I don't want to know about it. Hopefully they'll just go to a strip club, where touching doesn't usually happen. I trust him, though, and my two older brothers will be there, so I'm sure everything will be fine. I do want him to have fun.

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that's reasonable

same as Kel2004 - look but don't touch.

His idea of a great bachelor party is going off-roading at Paragon so I'm not too worried

I wasn't too worried - once I found out that my brother wasn't planning it! phew - that would have scared me....
but i trust him completely, and knew that there was no way he would do anything that i wasn't comfortable with him doing.
i wasn't comfortable putting any restrictions on it...becuase i didn't want to give him any ideas he didn't already have!!!

My instructions would be:

Clothes stay on
Hands stay in pockets (figuratively not literally)
Mouth stays closed

DH didn't have strippes though - he just did dinner & drinks with a couple of friends.

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

i should have never told her about getting a lap dance.. what was I thinking???

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Posted by OctGroom

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

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see this is where i'll get in trouble

what's so bad about an occasional lap dance?

Now, if you're going to strip clubs once a week, that's a problem

But if you're the guest of honor at a bachelor party, what's wrong with a lap dance

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Posted by OctGroom

i should have never told her about getting a lap dance.. what was I thinking???

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Seriously man, what were you thinking??? Although, if she would have found out any other way .... then you'd really have been in trouble!

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Posted by Jan05Bride

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Posted by OctGroom

i should have never told her about getting a lap dance.. what was I thinking???

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Seriously man, what were you thinking??? Although, if she would have found out any other way .... then you'd really have been in trouble!

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there was no way I could win..

if I say no lap dance.. and she finds out.. i am so busted.. and if I said yes.. honey, i had a lap dance.. she gets mad...

i chose the honest route.. idiot, i am.

Well, I trust in the fact that JT has respect for me and our relationship. I also trust in the fact that his bestman(who is planning the whole thing) is also my bestfriend, and he is gay and wants nothing to do with strippers at JT's bachelor party.....well, maybe male ones

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Posted by don424

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Posted by OctGroom

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

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see this is where i'll get in trouble

what's so bad about an occasional lap dance?

Now, if you're going to strip clubs once a week, that's a problem

But if you're the guest of honor at a bachelor party, what's wrong with a lap dance

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well, i wasn't the guest of honor.. but after a while of seeing many a lap dance.. i decided.. i wanted one... she said she was 22 and from Hungary.. she knew her craft well and i sent her over to the groom afterwards.

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Posted by OctGroom

there was no way I could win..

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You could have just forgone the lap dance

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by don424

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Posted by OctGroom

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

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see this is where i'll get in trouble

what's so bad about an occasional lap dance?

Now, if you're going to strip clubs once a week, that's a problem

But if you're the guest of honor at a bachelor party, what's wrong with a lap dance

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well, i wasn't the guest of honor.. but after a while of seeing many a lap dance.. i decided.. i wanted one... she said she was 22 and from Hungary.. she knew her craft well and i sent her over to the groom afterwards.

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How recently from Hungary?

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by don424

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Posted by OctGroom

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

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see this is where i'll get in trouble

what's so bad about an occasional lap dance?

Now, if you're going to strip clubs once a week, that's a problem

But if you're the guest of honor at a bachelor party, what's wrong with a lap dance

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well, i wasn't the guest of honor.. but after a while of seeing many a lap dance.. i decided.. i wanted one... she said she was 22 and from Hungary.. she knew her craft well and i sent her over to the groom afterwards.

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How recently from Hungary?

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i don't know.. heck, she could have been from Bensonhurst and affected a fake accent.

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Posted by OctGroom


well, i wasn't the guest of honor.. but after a while of seeing many a lap dance.. i decided.. i wanted one... she said she was 22 and from Hungary.. she knew her craft well and i sent her over to the groom afterwards.

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Eh, it's the least you do for your buddy

I don't know - I've lost all respect for OctGroom after this thread.....
Lap Dances from Hungarian Strippers!!! What were you thinking???

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Posted by palebride

I don't know - I've lost all respect for OctGroom after this thread.....
Lap Dances from Hungarian Strippers!!! What were you thinking???

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i know right??
you should have made sure she was from sweden

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by don424

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Posted by OctGroom

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

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see this is where i'll get in trouble

what's so bad about an occasional lap dance?

Now, if you're going to strip clubs once a week, that's a problem

But if you're the guest of honor at a bachelor party, what's wrong with a lap dance

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well, i wasn't the guest of honor.. but after a while of seeing many a lap dance.. i decided.. i wanted one... she said she was 22 and from Hungary.. she knew her craft well and i sent her over to the groom afterwards.

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How recently from Hungary?

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i don't know.. heck, she could have been from Bensonhurst and affected a fake accent.

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I know I'll get flamed for this, but this is my problem with some strip clubs -

it is possible - just possible - that if the woman told you she was from Hungary (or are you a Hungarian accent expert?) and she had an accent - that she was pretty new to the US. Al ot of immigrant women strip b/c they are here illegaly or can't make enough $ b/c their English is horrible. So they are desperate.

I don't think stripping is gross; well, maybe I do, but the point is I think its gross to pay a woman for sexual dances when she is in a desperate situation. Someone like Pamela Anderson - no, clearly she had other choices in her life than to make living loooking like a whore. But a young 22 year old from a poor country...not sure I excactly feel sorry for her but I feel its gross tot take advantage of that situtation and think its funny that she's '22 and Hungarian'.