Spinoff to Bachelor Party Poll

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by cluelessbride

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Posted by OctGroom

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Posted by don424

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Posted by OctGroom

FW is very cool with looking.. though I know she hates it.. she gets jealous.. she wants to let me enjoy the visuals.

But at a friend's bachelor party last May.. i got a lapdance and boy.. was she pissed.. even though she said.. go and have a great time

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see this is where i'll get in trouble

what's so bad about an occasional lap dance?

Now, if you're going to strip clubs once a week, that's a problem

But if you're the guest of honor at a bachelor party, what's wrong with a lap dance

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well, i wasn't the guest of honor.. but after a while of seeing many a lap dance.. i decided.. i wanted one... she said she was 22 and from Hungary.. she knew her craft well and i sent her over to the groom afterwards.

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How recently from Hungary?

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i don't know.. heck, she could have been from Bensonhurst and affected a fake accent.

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I know I'll get flamed for this, but this is my problem with some strip clubs -

it is possible - just possible - that if the woman told you she was from Hungary (or are you a Hungarian accent expert?) and she had an accent - that she was pretty new to the US. Al ot of immigrant women strip b/c they are here illegaly or can't make enough $ b/c their English is horrible. So they are desperate.

I don't think stripping is gross; well, maybe I do, but the point is I think its gross to pay a woman for sexual dances when she is in a desperate situation. Someone like Pamela Anderson - no, clearly she had other choices in her life than to make living loooking like a whore. But a young 22 year old from a poor country...not sure I excactly feel sorry for her but I feel its gross tot take advantage of that situtation and think its funny that she's '22 and Hungarian'.

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i hear you.. may not agree with your assestment.. but i hear you.

my husband went to New Orleans for the weekend for his bachelor party. i just told him to have a good time but not too good of a time. other than that i didnt want to know what happened. when i picked him up at the airport, he started telling me about his weekend, strippers and all. i didnt even ask nor did i want to know!

I bartended a bachelor party once a long time ago and let me tell you I've seen all that could happen at a bachelor party!!!

My 2 older brothers and 6 male cousins were at his party so I think he knew better....

Honestly though, I do trust him so even if my family wasn't there, I would tell him to have fun. I know I did on mine......

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Posted by kdelace


I bartended a bachelor party once a long time ago and let me tell you I've seen all that could happen at a bachelor party!!!

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Hehehehehehehe. Now this statement says it all.

DJPILL-

yes i had the unfortunate pleasure of watching just what some guys REALLY do at these bachelor parties. (and i say some because not all the men there were involved....)