ok so i posted that i really want pics at Old Westbury Gardens like reallly reallly reallly want them
when i went to photog today, all the pics i kept pointing out that i loved were taken at .....OWG!
soooo
what if i stay at a hotel close to OWG the night before the wedding...get ready there with BMs and probably my parents
photos at OWG around 2
330/4 get in limo to Patchogue for Wedding
arrive at hall by 430/5 (labor day weekend traffic)
ceremony at 6
am i asking too much of my BMs to go to hotel?
I would need a hotel anyway to get ready at bc Im not a fan of my parents house for pictures my parents live in medford- which as some may know is super close to patchogue, next town over
JLWSJC
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If that's what you're dying to do, then do it. Tell your BM's they can stay wherever they want as long as they are at your hotel by a certain time to get ready and take photos with you.
LoveyDovey
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ya, i wont pressure them to stay at hotel
but then...everyone has to drive from owg to patchogue??
JLWSJC
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ya, i wont pressure them to stay at hotel
but then...everyone has to drive from owg to patchogue??
Are you not getting a limo for the BP? If you are, and they choose not to stay at the hotel, that's fine, but it's their problem what they do with their car whether they drive it back or take the limo...
If you're not getting a limo, maybe consider it since you are asking people to schlep around... and it might give people more incentive to stay int heotel with you if they know they don't have to worry about transportation.
LoveyDovey
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no i will def be getting LIMO
FH will take limo to OWG and then we will all get in it to go to wedding
thats what i was thinking, hopefully they will get someone to drop them off....3 of the girls i know will prob just get dropped off with me
and other 3 im not sure, i hate to say its their problem...but I get ONE day, can i just have it the way i want it lol
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no i will def be getting LIMO
FH will take limo to OWG and then we will all get in it to go to wedding
thats what i was thinking, hopefully they will get someone to drop them off....3 of the girls i know will prob just get dropped off with me
and other 3 im not sure, i hate to say its their problem...but I get ONE day, can i just have it the way i want it lol
Sorry, if they choose not to stay at the hotel, they'll have to worry about their cars. They can come with you int he limo or drive or have someone drive their cars back. They're big girls, and it's your day, they can suck it up for you. You can't take care of everyone all day long. And that can all be resolved by them getting dropped off the night before and staying overnight with you. I say just do it.
LoveyDovey
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no i will def be getting LIMO
FH will take limo to OWG and then we will all get in it to go to wedding
thats what i was thinking, hopefully they will get someone to drop them off....3 of the girls i know will prob just get dropped off with me
and other 3 im not sure, i hate to say its their problem...but I get ONE day, can i just have it the way i want it lol
Sorry, if they choose not to stay at the hotel, they'll have to worry about their cars. They can come with you int he limo or drive or have someone drive their cars back. They're big girls, and it's your day, they can suck it up for you. You can't take care of everyone all day long. And that can all be resolved by them getting dropped off the night before and staying overnight with you. I say just do it.
