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Spinoff to QOTD: Does your FH's family like you?

marymoon Posted:

Spinoff to QOTD: Does your FH's family like you?

beatle06 Posted:

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Thanks Marymoon I was thinking that too!

shellnroc Posted:

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Yes they LOVE me. I really can't blame them who woouldn't love me. I'm great!
All kidding aside we really all do get along I must say I'm blessed.
sarahthegreat Posted:

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they love me as one of their own. i fight with his brothers and call his parents mom and dad.

sarahbelle Posted:

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FH's family is awesome. I definitely think of them as my family too.

marymoon Posted:

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I put 'other'...they are sort of between hating me and acceptng me. :-/. Well his aprents have pretty much accepted me, but his sister hates me (I hate her too).. But they don't agree with our relationship in general. They don't like the fact that we do everything together. They just disagree with the whole way we operate.

At first they really liked me, then when they found out FH was serious about me it bothered them b/c I'm not jewish, and then it bothered them when FH stopped going to events where I wasn't invited. And then they started blaming everything Fh did that they didn't like on me..it's been a tumultuous 6 years.
beautyq115 Posted:

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That stinks Jenn
coxmandi Posted:

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They love me!

I'm learning to love them too.
cmastro25 Posted:

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They love me. In fact, I tease FI all the time that they like me better.
gNi1125 Posted:

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It's a weird relationship with FMIL. FH also lives with his grandparents who I love.

JP&EP Posted:

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I know they love me. FH is the eldest of 3 boys. So now FMIL feels that she is getting the daughter she never had. His family has really tried to include me in things even while he is out at sea.

beautyq115 Posted:

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Thats really nice
Mystere Posted:

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FH and I were best friends before we started dating and his family loves me. They insist I go to events even when he can't go to them. They are my family and i love all of them!!

Goldi1021 Posted:

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What a doozie of a question. I see no reason for them not to like me. I am normal, relatively attractive, highly educated and respectful. I have to keep reminding myself that they are having a harder time with losing their 'workhorse' than they are with gaining a daughter. I don't think they like the idea that he will no longer be available to them at a moments notice. I told FH that whether it be me or someone else, that his family would have to get used to the fact that his wife and children (when he has them) will ALWAYS come first. His parents will have to rely more upon his siblings than him because he will have a home and a family of his own to be responsible for.

lisad117 Posted:

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FH was married before and I can tell by the things they say that they like me better and I feel like a part of their family. The only downside is that he had a big wedding the first time too and they don't think he should be doing it again but since its my first marriage he doesn't want me to miss out and he told them that. I think they think that I shouldn't expect him to do it again.

hmpena Posted:

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They love me and I love them! We thought that FI's mom was going to have a heart attack when she learned that we were moving in together. But she took it very well. Then, when FI got sick, I was there taking care of him 24/7 and never left his side through both surgeries. I didn't know it, but before we got engaged, she sewed me my own Christmas stocking to match the rest of the family! His family knows how committed to him I am (I didn't run when he was diagnosed with cancer!) and his parents feel they are gaining another daughter.

LMFitz Posted:

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His parents adore me - and I adore them right back. His sister and I are great friends - mutual adoration again. His brother is another issue - but he's an issue with FI as well. FBIL used to tell me how lucky FI is to have found me - but recent events have probably changed that opinion. I know it will blow over - and if it doesn't, oh well. I'm not that fond of him to begin with - but I would like some sort of relationship for the sake of the family.

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