Spinoff to some of these 'innocent' topics

diamondgrlie Posted: May 06, 2004 11:48 AM

Spinoff to some of these 'innocent' topics

I was waiting for BMD'sPeanut to start it but I guess I will.

Who is saving 'it' for marriage?

and/or

Do you wish you did?

I will start. No I didnt save it and truthfully I am glad I didnt. I enjoyed my youth and experimenting.

BMD'sPeanut Posted: May 06, 2004 11:49 AM

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Posted by diamondgrlie

I was waiting for BMD'sPeanut to start it but I guess I will.

Who is saving 'it' for marriage?

and/or

Do you wish you did?

I will start. No I didnt save it and truthfully I am glad I didnt. I enjoyed my youth and experimenting.

Am I controversial?

RedHead Posted: May 06, 2004 11:50 AM

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No i didn't save it

and no i am glad i didn't save it!

I believe in test driving a car before you buy it...(joking just joking girls)

lilmrs Posted: May 06, 2004 11:51 AM

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hbradio Posted: May 06, 2004 11:52 AM

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Posted by diamondgrlie

I was waiting for BMD'sPeanut to start it but I guess I will.

Who is saving 'it' for marriage?

and/or

Do you wish you did?

I will start. No I didnt save it and truthfully I am glad I didnt. I enjoyed my youth and experimenting.

I feel the same!

brideinapril Posted: May 06, 2004 11:52 AM

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No I didn't save it, I agree with Oct.2004bride!! Gotta try it before ya buy it!

btrflygrl Posted: May 06, 2004 11:52 AM

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I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

Jan05Bride Posted: May 06, 2004 11:52 AM

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Posted by oct.2004bride
I believe in test driving a car before you buy it...

I don't think I hold 'virginity' and that status as high as love and commitment and caring.
I'm not saving it and I don't regret it. It's a pleasurable part of life, why wait! JMO

diamondgrlie Posted: May 06, 2004 11:52 AM

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Posted by BMD'sPeanut

Posted by diamondgrlie

I was waiting for BMD'sPeanut to start it but I guess I will.

Who is saving 'it' for marriage?

and/or

Do you wish you did?

I will start. No I didnt save it and truthfully I am glad I didnt. I enjoyed my youth and experimenting.

Am I controversial?

Well nothing shocks me at all so no you arent controversial but it did seem you were the post starter on the topic this morning and I didnt want to step on your toes.

MrHostility Posted: May 06, 2004 11:55 AM

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No.
Personally I don't think it's smart to wait. Sexual compatibility is important in a relationship. If you have bad sex, it could ruin the marriage.

But some people feel so strongly about waiting, they do it. Which is fine for them, but I never would.

brideinapril Posted: May 06, 2004 11:56 AM

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Posted by btrflygrl

I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

so sorry to hear this!

btrflygrl Posted: May 06, 2004 12:00 PM

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Posted by brideinapril

Posted by btrflygrl

I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

so sorry to hear this!

Thank you....it's long gone and we were over pretty soon after that. damage was done (emotionally).....I'm where I belong now and happier than ever.....

brideinapril Posted: May 06, 2004 12:01 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by brideinapril

Posted by btrflygrl

I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

so sorry to hear this!

Thank you....it's long gone and we were over pretty soon after that. damage was done (emotionally).....I'm where I belong now and happier than ever.....

You're a strong person.

RedHead Posted: May 06, 2004 12:02 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

Posted by brideinapril

Posted by btrflygrl

I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

so sorry to hear this!

Thank you....it's long gone and we were over pretty soon after that. damage was done (emotionally).....I'm where I belong now and happier than ever.....

you were raped and you stayed with him???
ETA...i am not trying to be rude just curious about the experienc

DrmnBlnd Posted: May 06, 2004 12:05 PM

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Posted by DLWDLG

No I didnt and I don't regret it.

I feel the same way.

julz33 Posted: May 06, 2004 12:10 PM

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I didn't wait but he was my one and only

tourist Posted: May 06, 2004 12:13 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

I'm sorry you went through that.

I am glad I didn't wait because I think I'd be really stressed about it & I am already stressed about other things!

FeliciaDA Posted: May 06, 2004 12:22 PM

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Posted by btrflygrl

I had intended saving it for at least when I was older....but at 14 I was forced by my 16 yr old boyfriend....

sorry to hear that your first time had to be like that

I didn't save it, and I used to feel a little bad when I was younger. But now , I'm so glad I didn't .. I think my past experiences make me appreciate just how GOOD my FH is

(satisfied FW here )

nov04LIbride Posted: May 06, 2004 12:28 PM

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Didn't save it, but I am really glad I dated as much as I did before meeting the one. I think for me I would have wondered how sure I was if I hadn't dated other people...Now everything is great in a different way, but I still will miss that first kiss tingle when you kiss someone the first time...