Spinoff to some of these 'innocent' topics

Original post by diamondgrlie

May 06, 2004 11:48 AM

I was waiting for BMD'sPeanut to start it but I guess I will.

Who is saving 'it' for marriage?

and/or

Do you wish you did?

I will start. No I didnt save it and truthfully I am glad I didnt. I enjoyed my youth and experimenting.

boosh78201 Posted: May 06, 2004 01:29 PM

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Didnt save it either although I wished I had saved it for DH instead of the guy that took it from me.

OctBride05 Posted: May 06, 2004 01:32 PM

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i didn't save it and i have no regrets

Xelindrya Posted: May 06, 2004 02:51 PM

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Didnt save it for marriage and had NO intentions EVER of saving it for marriage!!

Heck I had a hell of a LOT of fun with 'it' and don't regret a single bit of it.

No shame in having a good time.

Also, I'm so glad i know Jim well enough *ahem* that I know i can live with him for the rest of my life happily ever after.

cocoa Posted: May 06, 2004 04:25 PM

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When i was younger, i thought that i would, but then i realized i could be waiting forever!!! i couldn't think about waiting until i was 45 if i had to...that would have sucked!

smilealways Posted: May 06, 2004 04:33 PM

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Didn't save it, though I've had less partners than fingers on 1 hand. The first was an a$$, but I don't regret it b/c it gave me a daughter who I gave up for adoption but still see regularly. The second I could've done without. And then there's FI who's just the best! :o) Definitely don't regret not waiting with him. ;o)

MrsBrad Posted: May 06, 2004 05:06 PM

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I am saving it and I am glad I did. As I posted earlier, I am afraid it will hurt - but I am also glad that I am sharing this special part of myself with my FI - who is also a virgin.

We have been dating for 4 years and it hasnt been easy ... I cant wait

OctGroom Posted: May 06, 2004 05:23 PM

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I don't think I ever thought of saving it.
It was an experience that I wanted to enjoy.

And though it took awhile.. it was beyong my wildest dreams.. and I have some pretty wild dreams.. LMAO

wenndypoo Posted: May 06, 2004 06:27 PM

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I didn't, and I don't regret it. I think sexual compatibility is very important. I also think you need some basis of comparison.

I give alot of credit to those who wait though, I think that takes a huge comittment!

dm24angel Posted: May 06, 2004 06:35 PM

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didnt save it and never thought I would

shelly3950 Posted: May 07, 2004 10:24 AM

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I did not save it for marriage, and I am glad I didn't. I sowed my oats, got a couple of fantasies out of the way, and have no regrets. There is nothing I feel like I have left to do (at least nothing I would actually do) and I can go into my future without looking back or having any regrets.

not to mention, I learned a few tricks that FH enjoys and learned a few things (like size DOES matter). Sexual compatibility is so important.

prncssrachel Posted: May 07, 2004 10:37 AM

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Oh hell no I didn't save it. I never intended to 'save' it and it never even dawned on me to 'save' it. I totally respect those who are waiting until marriage, but it had no purpose to me to wait, especially because I thought I woudl never find someone worth marrying. Luckily I did!

marymoon Posted: May 07, 2004 12:56 PM

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I thought I might save it for marriage. And then as I got older I just knew I'd wait for the right person and the right moment. I found both with FH No regrets at all. Although there is magic in the first time being on wedding night. We're not going to have sex w/o a condom until our wedding night, even tho I'm probably going to go on the pill before that. Not a huge deal, but it's something we're looking forward too.

Mrs.Brad- It hurts, but it's worth it!