spinoff to the 'and guest' question, i have a sticky situation that need your input

cleokizzy Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:33 AM

spinoff to the 'and guest' question, i have a sticky situation that need your input

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Lucky2010 Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:36 AM

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Hm that sounds sticky indeed. I think out of courtesy you should invite her with a guest and hope that they break up by the time of your wedding!

JoanneAndJustin Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:37 AM

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Don't invite him. I wouldn't. MOH or no. Pre-Justin I dated 'the guy no one liked' and when he wasn't invited I just went alone or didn't go...

In the end she'll come to her senses in her own time and will be glad that she didn't have to ruin your wedding by bringing this idiot.

merryNmatt Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:38 AM

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just hope that by the time you send out your invites this has run its course and the guy is out of the picture?!?!?!

JAAMS Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:38 AM

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Posted by bellaitalian618

Hm that sounds sticky indeed. I think out of courtesy you should invite her with a guest and hope that they break up by the time of your wedding!

I agree! Or hope she brings someone else

AngnShaun Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:38 AM

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yeah you should extend the invite...

mzmahagony Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:39 AM

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Well that kind of hard but I am in a similar situation. There is nothing wrong with my friends BF I just don't like him but that's her man not mine so who really cares what I think. I am sending her an invite for her and a guest so if her guest is him I don't really care. there will be so many ppl at the wedding that I will prob not notice him anyway.

In your case, I would just lether know that she can bring a guest and if it happens to be him then just try not to let it bother you. Who knows they prob won't be together by the time of your wedding anyway...lol...fingders crossed

JAAMS Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:39 AM

Re: spinoff to the 'and guest' question, i have a sticky situation that need your input

ACTUALLY if your MOH says they are just friends, I don't see why you would have to invite her w/ him. No matter if something is going on or not, if she says they aren't you shouldn't feel obliged to include him as a significant other for her.

Windy Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:41 AM

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I think you should invite her with a guest - after all she is your MOH. Hopefully she wont bring him.

FallBride2010 Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:41 AM

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I think the courteous thing to do would be to invite ehr with a guest...and it's her choice who she brings. There will be so much going on, you wont even notice him.

little j Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:43 AM

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if you are sitting your BP with their friends, invite him. if the BP will sit only with the BP, no invitation is necessary

es2189 Posted: Dec 31, 2009 11:58 AM

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i think that you don't have to invite him...however, i think you really shouldn't worry about it as of yet, since you won't have to send out the invites for another 5 months. things could change a LOT in 5 months!!

BriansWifey Posted: Dec 31, 2009 02:03 PM

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lmfao at the immaculate conception part!!!

but the situation does sound very fishy.
i would definitly invite her with a guest tho. after all she is ur MOH and it's up to her who she brings.... gl!

FutureCap Posted: Dec 31, 2009 02:11 PM

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couple of things...

- you still have lots of time until august, so let's all pray this guys is out of the picture by then cause the whole thing is quite shady!

-you should still invite her with a 'guest'. and if she is still 'just friends' with said loser then you should still just put 'guest' since they are just friends, then maybe you will get lucky and she will bring someone else anyway!

Diana508 Posted: Dec 31, 2009 02:15 PM

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Hopefully you won't have to worry about this by the time your invites go out, but I would invite her with a guest. She is your MOH and unless you think he's going to pull a stunt, it's probably not worth the hurt feelings.

halfbaked Posted: Dec 31, 2009 02:19 PM

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WOW! This sounds exactly like my MOH's b/f (she officially anounced they're dating. ) except he doesn't live with baby momma, they all work together though (MOH, b/f, Baby Momma) and he's about 40 years old and still lives with his mom. And he has 3 kids, one a newborn, but he's not seeing anyone else.

I'm going to invite her with guest. I always invite him everywhere out of respect for her, but usually he doesn't show (even when he says he is going to ). I have tried to tell her she's being blind but it only ended up us arguing. I can't make her descisions for her so I might as well let her make her own mistakes.