I thought I wasnt the mommy type until my cousins baby came last week. Now Im def more interested
However, I still think I need 2-4 more yrs. I have LOTS I want to do before changing diapers
johnsae
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FH wants a honeymoon baby, but I want to wait at least a year...but we both def want kids.
alioop4282
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I'll be 27 when we get married and I'd like to be a mom by 30. FH will be 35. I think that's a good time. We also want to wait till we have a house.
imyurfavgirl
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Maybe like a year into our marriage. We want to enjoy living on our own.
shellnroc
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I can't wait to have children. I'd say within the yr or yr anniv. If it was up to me it would be right away but FH was to wait a bit. I guess we will see.
BKtoLI
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Want to wait at least a year for a number of reasons. One because we want to enjoy being married. We only have an 11 month engagement, and will only have been together for 2 1/2 years the day of our wedding.
Once you have kids, your life is not your own anymore, and as selfish as it sounds, we need time to get our stuff together to prepare for that change!!!
Plus we want to move out of state before we have kids. So that will take some time as well.
We're not waiting longer than that because I'm not getting any younger!!!
L&M2006
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We're definetly looking into th 5-6 year range. We're in no rush, we figure we've got plenty of nieces and nephews to keep us busy in the meantime.
jes81276
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Sometimes I really want one, but then I cannot imagine changing my life right now...so I think that tells me that I need to wait. We are thinking 2-3 years. We want to be in a house, and I don't want to get pregnant before I get tenure.
thefirstlady
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I voted for after 1yr anniv. but I know FH wants them like yesterday!
nickipa
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when we get married we will have been together for 5 years and living together for 3...so I think we will probably start trying after we get settled in our house! FH says I have the 'baby itch'.....secretly I know he has it too
sarahbelle
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I'm not 100% sure....but I voted for after our 1 year anniversary. If it happens sooner, I would be okay with that.
Love_my_Freddybear
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ASAP!!!!!!!!!
SweetCin704
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We'll start trying as soon as we're back from our hm.
Goldi1021
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Posted by SweetCin704
We'll start trying as soon as we're back from our hm.
Ditto. We are starting next spring!
LaurenluvsTJ
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After our 1st anniv. we will start trying. We saw one of FH's friends today who just had a baby, and after we left he said 'I want one'
EJSD2006
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I'm 27 now and FH is 28. I think we definitely want kids before 30. We want a few years to enjoy time when it's just the 2 of us.
October Bliss
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Based on our ages, it will be right away or not at all.
AlliNMatt06
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I voted for 2-4yrs. Both FH and myself will be just 26 when we get married. I would like to be pregnant by 28. That is only if we own a house by then, which I have faith we will.
We also want to wait because we want to go on vacations, especially Europe for are one year anniversary. I want to enjoy life with just him for awhile. Kids change everything.
MrsP2Be
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Even though I'll be 33 on our one year, I think I want a year to ourselves first.
Pookiesangel
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For us, we will start after the honeymoon. I'm older than FH, so I feel the pressure a bit more, Also FH wants his mom to see her grandchildren, she is battling uterine cancer and although she is doing well, I know it's in the back of his mind, she may not be around all that long.