ok now that it is march i am like omg next month will be the 1 year mark...and its freaking me out! i suddenly feel really stressed like i have so much to dooo. I know we have gotten some major things out of the way so we are doing good....but i just keep thinking of all these little details and im getting overwhelmed
sorry just needed to vent!
rocketsummer17
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No freaking!!!! Everything will work out and everything will be done with more than enough time to spare!!!!!
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Posted by MrsC2010
ok now that it is march i am like omg next month will be the 1 year mark...and its freaking me out! i suddenly feel really stressed like i have so much to dooo. I know we have gotten some major things out of the way so we are doing good....but i just keep thinking of all these little details and im getting overwhelmed
sorry just needed to vent!
i am also getting married next April. don't worry. the only thing i have done is, my RH is booked. i set up a timeline of when we should be doing things over the next couple of months. some people plan their wedding in one year so i am not stressing yet.
Sandradv121
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Please breathe!!!!!! Time to get excited!!! Everything will come together I promise!
BrooklynGroomzilla
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You will be absolutely fine. :) I have a co-worker who's son just got engaged and they're getting married in like six months. They're taking it easy too. Just booked the hall and sending out invites. They don't have a care in the world when it comes to their wedding.
lori7570
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OK....deep breath!!!!
You are going to get everything done!!! Freaking out is not going to help...if there is something you want to get done just start working on it...
The best way to control anxiety is to be proactive!!
(Sorry to go all therapist on you BTW!!)
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llolll my bro got engaged a few days after me.. his fw is booking everything so fast. they are gettng married in 4 months. lol so yea, u have time lol
stinenandy2010
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don't worry, everything will come together, just take a deep breath and maybe just start writing a list of 'to do' items
Lsorrent
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First........BREATHE! You've got plenty of time to work with. I originally was trying to plan a wedding in 9 months until I realized there were no halls available for the dates I wanted.
Just give yourself a timeline and/or to-do list and do one thing at a time.
Jna2010
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no need to freak out, you should be EXCITED!!!!! youve already gotten so much done and you still have time to do the rest, think about how your that much closer to the day where youll be a wife!
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This is the fun part! I can't wait to have all of my vendors done and be at the year mark so that I can just enjoy the girly part...relax and have fun!
MayBride2010
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Don't worry - take a deep breath. I have been through a few freaking out stages already....things will start to come together - have no fear!! Just set a timeline for yourself and try to relax and enjoy the planning stage...!
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You said you have most things done that is GREAT!!!! Take a deep breath and consider a little weekend getaway for your 1 year to getting married weekend. Take your mind off things and just have fun!
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Don't freak!!! Everything will turn out beautiful. Pace yourself and enjoy the ride!! Minus all the wedding detail stress, this should be one of the happiest times in your life!
(i say that to myself in the mirror every morning!!! )
MrsC2010
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thanks ladies....i know a year is plenty of time and i keep telling myself that. I guess I am just starting to get more anxious to get stuff done!
AdriandSteve
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yeah. i think we all have a good amount of time to get things done.
A lot of people i talk to say, 'why are the 2010 brides already planning everything.' So i respond with, 'so we don't have to go crazy like everyone else at the last minute'
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dear date twin! please don't freak out! i haven't yet but maybe i am just slacking like i have been since the summer lol it's ok your wedding will be great no matter what just take a deep breath and take things step by step
its ok just relax and breathe. all i have booked and feel like i should have more done is my rh my dj and my video. i feel like i should be doing much more at this stage! so dont worry you are not alone
