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starting to panic about wedding

stonepondbabe Posted:

starting to panic about wedding

I'm starting to have little panic attacks over my wedding. I can't seem to make any decisions AT ALL! I mean I can't pick any songs, I can't pick the vows and readings, I can't pick freaking shower thank you cards.
Plus I keep adding random things to my list of things to do that I don't even know if I need to do them. I just need to wait paitiently for the final vendor meetings to get answers, but I can't stand it!
I like to have things done, be prepared and I have this sick feeling I am forgetting things and suddenly I'll have a million things to do and no time and no help!
I find myself at work doing nothing because I can't even think anymore!
AHHHHH!!!
dgirl0114 Posted:

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I know exactly how you feel; have not been able to put a coherent thought together for the past week. I woke up this AM and realized that I still have to get pictures & songs together for videographer, we have to pick our vows, finalize the music for dj, etc. But I can't seem to make a decision to save my life :)

Breathe deep and have a nice cup of tea-that always helps me. Everything will come together and even if you forget some things, it's not important. You're marrying the love of your life!!

Best of luck to you.
sweetdreamz1181 Posted:

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i feel the same way... there are soo many things to do and everything i have to wait to meet with the RH and church... i cant take it anymore
stonepondbabe Posted:

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I wish tea would work, I'm wigging!

soon2BMrsDee Posted:

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Everything will come together - no panicking... think about what the day signifies... you are marrying the love of your life. Focus on that and you will find the answers for everything else... work together on what you need to do.

jaiese Posted:

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same here. I find going to to the gym helps get all that crazyness out of me!

Mooshyboo Posted:

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I know how you feel ~ I always remember everything I seem to be forgetting everything ~ at work I cant concentrate ~ I have not been feeling well having dizzy spells... I think I am overly stressed! I totally am feeling you big time!
xcalystax Posted:

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Aww girls People told me this but its really true, everything will be fine! What I did that helped was write stuff down as I thought of it, so I wouldn't forget and it helped me feel like I was keeping track of everything. Also try setting up a little schedule of things you want to get done and by when (that way you feel like you are accomplishing things and it always feels good to check stuff off as complete!)

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