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STD and work people question

ItalianBella1122 Posted:

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We did but only to the definites. A lot of FH's colleagues are actually our good friends and my bosses all have crazy schedules so I wanted to make sure they had the date now. Our absolute rule though was to send them to their home addresses....no STDs to the office!

SoonToBeMrsCali Posted:

Re: STD and work people question


Posted by itbroi805


Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

Also how would you feel if you got a Save the Date but no invite?? even if you left the job... I think it's safe to avoid..



I honestly wouldn't be that insulted...but I have defs I am inviting like my boss and 2 other coworkers for sure...plus i have an old coworker who left the job and moved to texas and Id really like to invite her and i think she should get a STD so she can plan around it...

im really confused here.



just send to your definites, then if you still want to invite your co-workers you can just give them an invite...

typically i have heard if you get a Save, you get an invite, but everyone who gets an invite doesn't need a save... like some of my local area friends i am not giving save the dates to because i know they wont need to do much planning but a couple months before.. I HTH :)
itbroi805 Posted:

Re: STD and work people question


Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali


Posted by itbroi805


Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

Also how would you feel if you got a Save the Date but no invite?? even if you left the job... I think it's safe to avoid..



I honestly wouldn't be that insulted...but I have defs I am inviting like my boss and 2 other coworkers for sure...plus i have an old coworker who left the job and moved to texas and Id really like to invite her and i think she should get a STD so she can plan around it...

im really confused here.



just send to your definites, then if you still want to invite your co-workers you can just give them an invite...

typically i have heard if you get a Save, you get an invite, but everyone who gets an invite doesn't need a save... like some of my local area friends i am not giving save the dates to because i know they wont need to do much planning but a couple months before.. I HTH :)



yea...i plan on sending an invite to everyone i send a STD too (which is def etiquette), but god forbid like my boss fired me or i left on bad terms that would change the situation and I would not feel bad not sending them an invite and im sure they would understand why.

ill just send them to the defs and if something happens then ill deal with it then.

Thanks for the help!
allornil Posted:

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hells no. who knows what could happen.

Tomsbride Posted:

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No, I don't know if I am inviting everyone and I don't know who will still be there!

jettahot Posted:

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nope! after the advice i got from the amazing ladies on here, i chose not to!!!!

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