STD and work people question

Ok, so are you sending STDs to your coworkers??

Maybe you're sending to only some people you know are a definite?

no, no STDs to coworkers

just afraid i might leave this job and then feel obligated to invite these people if i did that

I am. But I'm only inviting 6 or so people from work + significant others. I work in a hospital so a few of the physicians that i've worked closely with over the past 5 years have pretty busy schedules so I want to make sure they have enough time to make sure not to make other arrangements if they want to come to my wedding

I only have a few coworkers so yes

nope. just my boss.

Im inviting them - but they know when my wedding is and I doubt the want a magnet with a pic of FH and I.

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Posted by meghan13

nope. just my boss.

Im inviting them - but they know when my wedding is and I doubt the want a magnet with a pic of FH and I.

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ITA with this, I only sent STD's to the coworkers i'm friendly with outside of work...the rest will be invited though.

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Posted by Tink1118

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Posted by meghan13

nope. just my boss.

Im inviting them - but they know when my wedding is and I doubt the want a magnet with a pic of FH and I.

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ITA with this, I only sent STD's to the coworkers i'm friendly with outside of work...the rest will be invited though.

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see i really don't hang out with my friends at work outside of work but we're really friendly at work...ugh so confusing!

I mean worse case,...if i leave the job or they do and they get offended they weren't invited to wedding it's not like i have to hear them complain about it right?

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Posted by itbroi805

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Posted by Tink1118

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Posted by meghan13

nope. just my boss.

Im inviting them - but they know when my wedding is and I doubt the want a magnet with a pic of FH and I.

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ITA with this, I only sent STD's to the coworkers i'm friendly with outside of work...the rest will be invited though.

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see i really don't hang out with my friends at work outside of work but we're really friendly at work...ugh so confusing!

I mean worse case,...if i leave the job or they do and they get offended they weren't invited to wedding it's not like i have to hear them complain about it right?

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LOL, this is true. My office has a tradition of inviting our entire department to everyones weddings (it's contageous around here, everyone is either engaged or pregnant in a ripple effect) so in that respect it was a no-brainer for me.

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Posted by Tink1118

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Posted by itbroi805

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Posted by Tink1118

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Posted by meghan13

nope. just my boss.

Im inviting them - but they know when my wedding is and I doubt the want a magnet with a pic of FH and I.

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ITA with this, I only sent STD's to the coworkers i'm friendly with outside of work...the rest will be invited though.

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see i really don't hang out with my friends at work outside of work but we're really friendly at work...ugh so confusing!

I mean worse case,...if i leave the job or they do and they get offended they weren't invited to wedding it's not like i have to hear them complain about it right?

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LOL, this is true. My office has a tradition of inviting our entire department to everyones weddings (it's contageous around here, everyone is either engaged or pregnant in a ripple effect) so in that respect it was a no-brainer for me.

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that's how it is with my moms coworkers they invite each other to all the kids wedding which is why my mom has a big guest list!

nope! def not! and no invitations from me either!

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Posted by SoonToBeMrsCali

Also how would you feel if you got a Save the Date but no invite?? even if you left the job... I think it's safe to avoid..

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I honestly wouldn't be that insulted...but I have defs I am inviting like my boss and 2 other coworkers for sure...plus i have an old coworker who left the job and moved to texas and Id really like to invite her and i think she should get a STD so she can plan around it...

im really confused here.

a i only have a few co-workers coming - so yes,

there are some people i am up in the air about so I didn't send them one, and when i decide they will get the invite...

pretend the STD got lost in the mail

I sent one to my boss and the girl I am closest with. There are only 5 of us including my boss anyway, but no one likes the other 2 so they won't find out