STD Question:

When addressing the envelopes how do I do it????

Mr. and Mrs. J ***
Or
Mr. and Mrs. JOhn ***


HOW ABOUT If it is an elderly woman whose husband died....

Do i do...

Mrs. John *** ?????

Or Just Mrs. Sally ***

Nevermind- good ole Rosalie- my DOC got back to me, and those who are wondering, you do address the woman with a deceased husband with her husbands name

and if they are bringing a guest..you put

Mrs. JOhn Doe and ...the guest