STD Question

JC297 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 11:52 AM

STD Question

I'm starting to compile my list of who we are sending out STD to. I have a few friends who arent married but I will be inviting them with a guest, Do I include this on the Save the Date?

Would it be?

Ms. Nicole Smith

or

Ms. Nicole Smith & Guest

christine2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 11:55 AM

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honestly i am not sure. but i do recall that when my sister received a save the date it was just in her name. and then the invitation said Ms. ____ & guest.

however when i have received STDs they have always been Ms. ____ & Mr. ____. that was prior to us being engaged.

T E R I Posted: Dec 30, 2008 11:55 AM

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For STD's i would just send it to the friend, save the and guest part for the invitation

CristinanBen2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 11:57 AM

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I think the STD is just for the person you are inviting, no guest on it yet. From what Ive heard you would say that on the invite.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 11:59 AM

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If your close to the couple then the right thing to do it to include each name on the std (mr. smith and mrs. doe)
But if your not close with the couple and its a friend with a 'new' boyfriend/girlfriend just put your friends name... that way if they break up you are not committed to inviting them with a guest then.

marrymybestfriend Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:02 PM

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Posted by T E R I

For STD's i would just send it to the friend, save the and guest part for the invitation

i agree

Alyssa79 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:03 PM

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Posted by marrymybestfriend

Posted by T E R I

For STD's i would just send it to the friend, save the and guest part for the invitation

i agree

ditto. what if their not together by the time of the wedding?

JC297 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:05 PM

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I'm going to just write their name...but all my guests are getting invited with a guest. I need to guarantee 75 and we both have small families and as I told you ladies before....I really don't have many friends.

T E R I Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:09 PM

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Posted by Sora777

I'm going to just write their name...but all my guests are getting invited with a guest. I need to guarantee 75 and we both have small families and as I told you ladies before....I really don't have many friends.

I am inviting everyone with a guest too, but when i send out the STD's i will just address it to the person if they are not married

Hey, you have us

JC297 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:11 PM

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Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

SummerBride10 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:13 PM

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I would just send it without a guest. If they arent married yet...well, you never know what could happen in the next year and a half.

rocketsummer17 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:15 PM

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Posted by Sora777

Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

YAY you love us, you really love us!!!!!

SummerBride10 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:15 PM

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Posted by Sora777

Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

Aww!! I wish I could come...but that date doesnt exactly work for me!!

Alyssa79 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:20 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

Posted by Sora777

Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

Aww!! I wish I could come...but that date doesnt exactly work for me!!

ummm i think you can work around that

T E R I Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:20 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

Posted by Sora777

Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

Aww!! I wish I could come...but that date doesnt exactly work for me!!

Colleen you know you can squeeze in an appearance, just for a little bit

rocketsummer17 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:21 PM

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Posted by T E R I

Posted by SummerBride10

Posted by Sora777

Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

Aww!! I wish I could come...but that date doesnt exactly work for me!!

Colleen you know you can squeeze in an appearance, just for a little bit

come on colleen!!! you know you want to!!!

JC297 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:24 PM

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Posted by SummerBride10

Posted by Sora777

Yes I do have you guys and I wouldn' t be shocked at all if there was a LIW table at my wedding.

Aww!! I wish I could come...but that date doesnt exactly work for me!!

Do you worry about rain? I have checked the weather in the last 3 years it hasnt rained at all on the 17th.

MrsL2010 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:27 PM

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i was just going to put the name of my friend, unless they were engaged, which only happens to be 2 of my friends....the rest are married, so they will just get mr. and mrs. you never know what could happen in the next year and a half

lori7570 Posted: Dec 30, 2008 12:46 PM

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Here's a questions....I'm really doing the save the date b/c of so many OOT guests....so if I don't do '& guest' will that give the OOT guests enough time to plan for their dates and make travel arrangements for them? In this case is it better to let them know that they can bring a guest?