Are you guys sending out STD's to every single person on your guest list?? I am sending them out to everyone except i'm kinda thinking do I need to give one to every single co-worker that I am going to be inviting. The only reason why I am a little hesitant on this is because I am friends with some people at work that I am not inviting....I mean we are friendly at work and all but obviously I can't be inviting all of them, so it'll just make me feel bad when the ones that did get the STD are talking about it and then the others know that they didn't get one idk, i mean obviously they will know when they don't get an invitation......but idk, I just feel bad.
SummerBride10
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Only send it to people you are 100% sure you will never take off the guest list.
We sent them along with our eparty thank you's. Since people were invited to the eparty, they were obviously going to be invited to the wedding, so it worked out very well!
bride2be1012
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I am only sending mine to the people I absolutely want at the wedding.
SoonToBMrsC
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Posted by bride2be1012
I am only sending mine to the people I absolutely want at the wedding.
The co-workers that I have on my guest list are definitely going to be invited to my wedding....even if they were to leave the job tomorrow they are still going to be invited to my wedding because I am very close with them. My whole problem is that I feel bad for the coworkers that won't receive an STD so should I just not give out STD to any coworkers and then just give them an invite when it's time to give those out instead?
REM2010
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Same here...only definites. I was especially concerned with people who would have to make travel arrangements to get here, since most of my family and friends knew the date without me having to send one to them
CristinanBen2010
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I sent it only to immediate relatives like aunts, uncles, cousins, friends, and close relatives that I always see (such as parents 2nd cousins) I did not send it to extended family such as the kids of the 2nd cousins) I have a huge family and didnt want to order over 200 STD's
vv117
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my only worry is that people probably will post on facebook things like 'i got your save the date!' and if other people see it who are invited but didn't get a std, then they might think they're second place invites. just something to consider...
SoonToBMrsC
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Posted by vv117
my only worry is that people probably will post on facebook things like 'i got your save the date!' and if other people see it who are invited but didn't get a std, then they might think they're second place invites. just something to consider...
Well I have this part covered because I don't even have a facebook or myspace!!!!
Lsorrent
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I only sent to the 'A' list people, and even some of them didn't get them. I added a few people to my A-list after I sent them out, so they never got them. Hmmm I have some extras, maybe I'll send them out
