STD Question?

Ang9483 Posted: May 02, 2010 10:03 AM

STD Question?

My mom is telling me you only send STD's to immediate family. Is that true? or do you send it to everyone you plan on inviting?

wedding_girl Posted: May 02, 2010 10:15 AM

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You send them to everyone you're inviting

angelatp Posted: May 02, 2010 10:29 AM

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Posted by wedding_girl

You send them to everyone you're inviting

that's what I'm doing, well people on the A list anyways.

Vasiliki Posted: May 02, 2010 10:35 AM

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I think everyone ... especially if you are having a sunday/extended weekend/destination wedding. It great to give everyone a heads up.

Chanwich Posted: May 02, 2010 10:38 AM

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we are only doing family and close friends that we are 100% sure we are inviting. Relationships change over time and I don't want to feel obligated to invite someone that I've lost touch with just because I had sent them a std

FutureMrsPanuch Posted: May 02, 2010 10:40 AM

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We are sending them to everybody. Well our A list anyway :)

halfbaked Posted: May 02, 2010 11:10 AM

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We sent them to most people we invited. There were a few that we were on the fence about so they didn't get an STD.

KN2011 Posted: May 02, 2010 11:19 AM

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We sent them to all out of state guests, and all family, and close friends. I didnt sent them to my co workers, and people in that category

Tetelove Posted: May 02, 2010 11:57 AM

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I think STD are for everyone you are SURE you are inviting to the wedding..

angelabarra12 Posted: May 02, 2010 09:59 PM

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id send the STD to everyone you plan on inviting to the wedding!

NellieBellie32 Posted: May 02, 2010 10:16 PM

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im sending them to everyone.....except people from work (bc im not sure exactly who im inviting i may add or take people away later on)

SimHawk8 Posted: May 02, 2010 10:58 PM

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Posted by NellieBellie32

im sending them to everyone.....except people from work (bc im not sure exactly who im inviting i may add or take people away later on)

ITA .... work is a difficult sort of category of guests.

JohnnyandGia Posted: May 03, 2010 07:23 AM

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Posted by angelatp

Posted by wedding_girl

You send them to everyone you're inviting

that's what I'm doing, well people on the A list anyways.

I'm sending it out to my entire A list. I want to make sure they dont make plans.

JTG4EVER Posted: May 03, 2010 07:59 AM

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You send them to everyone you are definitely inviting. Don't send them to people you 'may' invite.

FutureJOC Posted: May 03, 2010 10:07 AM

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We are sending them to everyone we are 100% positive is getting an invite. We have a handful of people that might get cut if we need to cut people so we don't want to send them a STD because then we are obligated to send them an invite.

Just make absolutely sure that anyone outside of family you send an STD to is a definite invite.

MrandMrsP Posted: May 03, 2010 12:26 PM

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i am only sending them to the people i really want there

my guest list is over the room limit by about 35 people so we are not sending STDs to people that may get cut from our list in the end

So if I don't see you at a holiday you are not getting a STD

TheFutureMrs2011 Posted: May 03, 2010 02:36 PM

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Posted by NellieBellie32

im sending them to everyone.....except people from work (bc im not sure exactly who im inviting i may add or take people away later on)

ITA.. I was about to send some to work people and then I held off.. Who knows if I'll even be at this job by then.. If I'm not, I would only invite 3 people as opposed to the 10 I'll invite if still working here

MissingLI Posted: May 03, 2010 02:37 PM

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Posted by NellieBellie32

im sending them to everyone.....except people from work (bc im not sure exactly who im inviting i may add or take people away later on)

This is us too.

futurestevens Posted: May 03, 2010 03:26 PM

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i'm going to send them to everyone i am 100% sure i'm inviting. work ppl and some on-the-fence friends may not receive one, just in case we need to cut down the list before the actual invites go out. you don't want to get locked into something by sending a STD to someone you wind up not wanting to invite to the wedding!