I am planning on sending out my STD's soon and was wondering who I should sent them to. Do I send them to people I will definitely be inviting (A list) only. Will the people who don't get them, but may get an invite later, on be offended?
MrsBrags7706
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if anything, I would send them to immediate family, unless you want, everyone on our 'A' guest list [that could be alot, so if it is, u may want to narrow it down]. I wouldn't send it to anyone who is on the B list or if your not sure if theyre going to be invited, cause that'll look so bad! HTH!
Espo22
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Posted by amypf07
I am planning on sending out my STD's soon and was wondering who I should sent them to. Do I send them to people I will definitely be inviting (A list) only. Will the people who don't get them, but may get an invite later, on be offended?
Hmm thats the problem now with b lists, many people do std's now and its quite possible they'll find out you sent out your std's. They will think they're not invited when they dont get them and yeah might be a little confused after if they receive an invite. You can always say you sent them out and they never received it? but hmmm i don't know
KellyDance
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Just send them to A lists. B lists shouldn't get offended. If they ask, you just say that you sent them to family or out of town guests or something like that! That's what I did
nifheim
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A list only. We are doing just family, friends who we deff. know we are inviting and who travel for a living, and the wp.
No co-workers get it or friends who don't usually make plans a year in advance.
dawnbridetobe
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I definately say A list only-I made the mistake of sending one to almost everyone on my original list and now there are a handful of people I no longer converse with frequently but have to invite because I sent them a magnet.
libby2595
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i sent them ONLY TO OOT GUESTS. everyone who is local didn't have to plan ahead.
hth
Kara and Todd
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A-list only!
Your guest list will change so many times -- Send them ONLY to people who are one million percent definitely invited.
