Stepmother Vent!!! (sorry long)

OK so FH and I got engaged in Dec, we asked my stepmonster if she was going to sell her house and move to FL (we live in an apt in her house) before the wedding, she said 'No'. After her trip to FL in Apr, we asked again, she said 'No', she went back in July, we asked her again (cause we can see she is itching to go) she said 'No' 2 weeks ago, she tellsme to clean the apt, she has an agent coming over. I asked why, she said for a 2nd opinion ( her 1st opinion was back in May [who waits 5months to get a second opinion]) I asked her if she was going to put the house on the market before the wedding, she said 'No' Well, monday night @7:30 she tells me she is putting the house on the market TOMMOROW.

Don't you just love people. So she did the sign is up and now she is telling me there will be 2 open houses in the next 2 weeks! So I have piles of stuff for the wedding and I have people who are going to be going thru my apt!

To top it off my dad is sick over the whole thing because it's not his house and he feels stuck in the middle. So I feel bad for him. The only reason she is doing this is to run away from her kids! Her DD is a drunk who needs supervised visit with her kids and her DS's wife wants a divorce and DOESN'T want the kids, all 6 of them!!!!! So my SM wants to sell, so she can escape her hell spawn who only call her when they need money or a sitter. Out of 9 grandkids she sees them maybe 5 times a year, and that's when she is buying them birthday presents. They both live not more than 2o minutes away!
Sorry Iam just so mad at her for lying to me and giving me stress I don't need 3 weeks before the wedding!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

awww I am sooo sorry

Ryan, I only have one thing to say; People SUX! ESPECIALLY when it coems to weddings. everyone goes bonkers. I am sorry this is happening to you BUT there is a silver lining in this storm cloud! Didn't think there was one did ya?

-drum roll- Being as you are a DIY QUEEN, I and the rest of the LI wedding court give you fULL permission to create a dart board with faces instead of numbers. Hey you can even upload the design to Zazzle and have it laminated for future use-maybe put the faces on Velcom dor they are interchangable for the next batch of PITA people.

-hugs- It will work itself out one way or the other.

I am so sorry Ryan, It will all work out for the best. It stinks that your dad is caught in the middle and you definetly dont need the stress 3 WEEKS to the wedding You have a great family and the three of you have each other and you can not change your stepmonster so try not to get so angry because your are goint to be married in 3 weeks and it will make your family complete and maybe a HM ??????

im sorry!! I have a stepmonster too...she drives me nuts!!!!!!!!!!!!!

UGH!!!!!!! Why do people add unnecessary stress to other people's lives!??

So sorry you have to deal with this!

I am so sorry that you have to deal with this so close to your wedding

Thanks for the hugs girls!!
Jenn and Irene you guys make me giggle, thank you sooo much. I had a great day with my mom yesterday and am getting really excited!!!!! I feel overwhelmingly calm and ready, even thought I still have things to do. Thanks girls

I am so sorry. What a terrible thing to do to you. Maybe the house will not sell for a while and give you some time. But really that is just so wrong. Sorry.

I'm so sorry that you have to deal with that!!!

omg ryan i am so sorry you have to go through this so close to the wedding!!!!!