still waiting

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Posted by MikeandJess

does he know you want him to ask you? He might think he doesn't have to because you asked him.

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very true.. and being that things for the wedding are already done, he may think its pointless to do it and hasnt really thought about having to do it.

i don't really know your situation, but have you talked about it, has he said anything about getting a ring? should he realize that you're waiting for him to ask? b/c i agree, maybe he doesn't think he has to, or doesn't think you wanted him to, if you asked him.

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Posted by failurebydsign

its just a money situation..im not saying that i want it to happen..if it does then great..if not im ok with it..i just think its funny taht i just started planning a wedding wit out traditionally being asked

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Honestly i was in the same situation. I wasnt formally asked, but we decided to pick a date, and book our hall and big vendors like photo, band, etc.

Things book up so fast, and FH was getting my ring from client, so it took longer than he wanted but i had gone in september 06 to pick out the setting and shape stone i wanted.
i didnt get formally asked and my ring til Feb 14th 2007.

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Posted by jeanette0402

i don't really know your situation, but have you talked about it, has he said anything about getting a ring? should he realize that you're waiting for him to ask? b/c i agree, maybe he doesn't think he has to, or doesn't think you wanted him to, if you asked him.

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? me too

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Posted by Fall Bride 2008

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Posted by jeanette0402

i don't really know your situation, but have you talked about it, has he said anything about getting a ring? should he realize that you're waiting for him to ask? b/c i agree, maybe he doesn't think he has to, or doesn't think you wanted him to, if you asked him.

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? me too

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she asked him to marry her

do you think you'll ever get a formal e-ring? or do you even want it?

he probably just figured you took the reins on it and he doesn't have to ask ya!

I bet he thinks you dont need him to ask you

a few months before we got engaged - i wanted to book this hall ( not the one i ended up with btw) bc i was convinced if we didnt book it then we would never be able to get married there. FH refused to do any wedding planning or even talk about getting married at that point.

After we got engaged I jokingly said 'aw man we should have just booked when I wanted to' and he was very direct with me and said that if we booked a hall that meant we knew we were getting married so he wouldnt have formally proposed . . .

I am not saying your FH thinks this too BUT just offering a different perspective - but every girl deserves a formal engagement if she wants one and you need to drop bigger hints!

I would say that he probably just doesn't know you want him to Drop him some subtle but direct hints if you want him to.

Either way, you are going to get a beautiful wedding ring on YOUR BIG DAY so whether he asks or not, you will still get a ring

Good luck!!!