Stolen question...but its a good one!

little34 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 07:14 AM

Stolen question...but its a good one!

If you had a great relationship with FH but he never gave you the big O.... would you still marry him?

This is difficult to answer because there is no issue there with us...but I think I would still marry if he wasn't able to give me one.... you always have toys!

MrsDtoBe09 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 07:18 AM

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I think there should be so much more to a relationship than just sex. My FH is my absolute best friend in the whole world. So yes, absolutely if that were the case, I would definitely still marry him!

longislandlibrarian Posted: Dec 11, 2007 07:59 AM

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if that were the case, I would absolutely still marry him I can't imagine spending my life with anyone else.. i love him too much

stephlovesseyi Posted: Dec 11, 2007 09:12 AM

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Thank you Jesus we don't have that issue but,

Of course I would still marry him, there is so much more to our relationship then Sex. He is my best friend and I also couldn't imagine my life with out him

You can always teach an old dog new tricks... If he's willing to learn, it could be fun teaching

kabo0831 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 09:19 AM

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Yes, i would still marry him, but we dont have any problems in that area thank goodness

coley1027 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 10:01 AM

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of course i would still marry him! i love him to pieces, but maybe its easier for me to say that because we dont have that problem

xBrunette Posted: Dec 11, 2007 10:06 AM

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to me it doesn't matter.. i always got toys if needed... =)

LegoBride Posted: Dec 11, 2007 10:23 AM

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I call FH the master so I can't really say but I will be 100% honest - I dated someone before FH who couldn't do the job and it really affected our relationship and he was the nicest person....

Ann 52409 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 10:56 AM

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I know I would.. but, then you would have to invest some time and money in good books and video to teach FH how to get it right

PoppedInASnap Posted: Dec 11, 2007 11:16 AM

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I dont know because I never had that problem..

Umm I guess if you dont have a relationship where you can talk and say what you need then you shouldnt be getting married? THere are OTHER ways to get that o

AugustBridein09 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 12:51 PM

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We don't have this problem but IF we did....yeah I'd still marry him....I him too much!

Cacarina Posted: Dec 11, 2007 12:54 PM

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I think I would anyway. FH is my best friend on top of being my 'lover'...I would be happy to just have him in my life, even if he couldnt satisfy me. Thankfully...he does!

MJDoc12 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 03:46 PM

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nope

i know that sounds cruel--but IMO a great relationship includes great sexual chemistry IN ADDITION to non sexual chemistry. if my DH couldn't give me the big O--then obviously we are missing something between the sheets--and i honestly don't know if i would be able to continue a relationship with a man who couldn't give me what i needed in the bedroom as well as in my heart.

mrsdraskin2009 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 03:52 PM

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Definitely...there are so many other amazing things about our relationship that an O is the least of it! It def. helps though

TnJ041809 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 04:00 PM

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Hmm i don't kno this is a good one. I never got much satisfaction from anyone else but I believe it was because I wasn't in love or deeply connected with that person and I feel FH and I are so in sync because of that i feel it makes things more ummm...pleasurable lol

meli722 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 04:36 PM

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that was a question they asked on the 08 boards...i said i would still marry him, however, i would try my damn best to have an O, even if it has tobe with toys, then he can just use them on me...

meli722 Posted: Dec 11, 2007 04:38 PM

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Posted by Soon2bmrsP

I know I would.. but, then you would have to invest some time and money in good books and video to teach FH how to get it right

they have videos on how to get an O?? lol never seen them before...i say just invest in a good vibrator

CMS Posted: Dec 11, 2007 05:06 PM

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Of course I'd still marry him...

I don't have the Big O every single time and that's cool with me. We're best friends, so sex is just one aspect of our relationship, not the whole thing.

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Dec 11, 2007 05:22 PM

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Posted by CMS

Of course I'd still marry him...

I don't have the Big O every single time and that's cool with me. We're best friends, so sex is just one aspect of our relationship, not the whole thing.

thank god someone said they dont get it all the time!!!! its extremely hard for me to, and never happens when we ONLY have sex... im okay with it... it doesnt bother me... we totally dont consider sex a big part of our rel, nor do we care that much... so when it does happen, its THAT much better ya know? wonder if that makes any sense

he is my best friend above all else...

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Dec 11, 2007 05:25 PM

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Posted by MJDoc12

nope

i know that sounds cruel--but IMO a great relationship includes great sexual chemistry IN ADDITION to non sexual chemistry. if my DH couldn't give me the big O--then obviously we are missing something between the sheets--and i honestly don't know if i would be able to continue a relationship with a man who couldn't give me what i needed in the bedroom as well as in my heart.

personally, i think thats kinda crazy... it sounds like some friends rel's i know where sex is the only thing they have going for them so it better be amazing...