Stolen question...but its a good one!

I would totally still marry him!!! Its all about communication! The problem could be fixed very easily, u just have to be honest and tell/show/explain what exactly give you the big O!!!!
But thank god that has never been an issue in our case!!!

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Posted by stephlovesseyi

Thank you Jesus we don't have that issue but,

Of course I would still marry him, there is so much more to our relationship then Sex. He is my best friend and I also couldn't imagine my life with out him


You can always teach an old dog new tricks... If he's willing to learn, it could be fun teaching

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Posted by MJDoc12

nope

i know that sounds cruel--but IMO a great relationship includes great sexual chemistry IN ADDITION to non sexual chemistry. if my DH couldn't give me the big O--then obviously we are missing something between the sheets--and i honestly don't know if i would be able to continue a relationship with a man who couldn't give me what i needed in the bedroom as well as in my heart.

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personally, i think thats kinda crazy... it sounds like some friends rel's i know where sex is the only thing they have going for them so it better be amazing...

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well to each their own--i'm not saying that what i think is law--its something that is different for each person. i just notice that most all the girls on here said the same thing 'well its NOT a problem for FH and i---but if it was, i'm sure i would still marry him' the key word being its NOT a problem----my point was that if it WAS a problem....well that is just it--it would be a PROBLEM and therefore it would cause an issue in the relationship early on.

i just think that if you start off with the issue of never having a big O -- then it would probalby lead to more tension in the relationship later---so who knows whether it would lead to it becoming a long lasting relationship--into an engagement--and then into a marriage.

it seems hard to say what you would do if you never had the problem. i know personally, for me, i dated a guy who i really cared for--he was a sweetheart and we hit it off great. he was effing terrible in bed--i mean the worst. i tried teaching him...i tried to tell myself that it was okay if we didn't have hot sex--even when he was telling me he wanted to marry me and everything---and then i realized that it would never work, cause for ME there had to be a sexual connetion that was real and deep.

i have that with my DH now--we have great sex AND he's a great partner in life--for me it has to be both...but it doesn't have to be that way for anyone else--i was talking about ME.