So FH just called me and told me that a girl from his past (like literally 5 years ago or more!) texted him last night while we were sleeping at 12:30 saying...'I miss you.' This girl is weird, she called him drunk about 2 years ago at like 4AM telling him how much she misses him and wants to see him. I got on the phone and said this is Jason's girlfriend, please don't call again. So she didn't for 2 years and then randomly sends him this text at 12:30 on a Sunday night! This girl wasn't even a girlfriend of his, they just hung out for a few months. I totally trust FH, but I don't like this girl texting him, especially at random hours of the night. FH doesn't like it either...what do I do? I guess I should just ignore it and let it go...
I dont like that ... me and FH both got new numbers when we moved in together 2 years ago ... it can cause stupid drama thats controllable by other people and I wanted to avoid any possible arguments or uncomfortable situations between me and FH!
kabo0831
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that would drive me crazy, I think i would talk to my Fh about that and have your fh texted her and say that he is engaged and to have her stop texting.
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i had this problem with FH as well! girls would call if we went out around his area, becuz they prob saw him out with me and wanted to start drama....well this happened again about 2 or 3 months ago while we were out, they called non stop for 2 hrs i got on the phone yelling and hanging up on them blah blah, the next day i had FH change his # and now no more drama!
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I dont like that either! Maybe you should see if hes willing to change his number
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I dont like that either! Maybe you should see if hes willing to change his number
i agree... see if he can change his number... makes for a less sticky situation...
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Do you think this girl would stop texting/calling if your FH told her straight out, 'I'm engaged and very happy, please don't contact me anymore'?
I actually got an email a few weeks ago from an ex. He usually pops up when he's going through some crisis. Last time I heard from him was in May when his friend died in a motorcycle accident. Anyway, his email was, 'You'll always be special. Love ya bunches.'
I told him that it was nice to hear from him, but I also told him that I was in treatment for non-Hodgkins lymphoma and that FH and me were going to get married. He emailed me back congrats and that he'll be praying for my recovery and so far I haven't heard anything else from him.
So maybe that will work. *fingers crossed*
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So FH just called me and told me that a girl from his past (like literally 5 years ago or more!) texted him last night while we were sleeping at 12:30 saying...'I miss you.' This girl is weird, she called him drunk about 2 years ago at like 4AM telling him how much she misses him and wants to see him. I got on the phone and said this is Jason's girlfriend, please don't call again. So she didn't for 2 years and then randomly sends him this text at 12:30 on a Sunday night! This girl wasn't even a girlfriend of his, they just hung out for a few months. I totally trust FH, but I don't like this girl texting him, especially at random hours of the night. FH doesn't like it either...what do I do? I guess I should just ignore it and let it go...
call her, curse her out, tell her never to text or call him again, then tell her to have a nice day
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Ehh - she's not going to get him. Just delight in the joy that he is yours and she doesn't stand a chance! What psycho is drunk on a Sunday night? Write her off as a loser and move on!
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Ehh - she's not going to get him. Just delight in the joy that he is yours and she doesn't stand a chance! What psycho is drunk on a Sunday night? Write her off as a loser and move on!
Haha, this is pretty much what I am doing. In a way it is pretty flattering to know what someone else likes FH, but can't have him. He is pretty wonderful, and he's all mine, so I am not worried!!
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Posted by MrsDtoBe09
Ehh - she's not going to get him. Just delight in the joy that he is yours and she doesn't stand a chance! What psycho is drunk on a Sunday night? Write her off as a loser and move on!
Haha, this is pretty much what I am doing. In a way it is pretty flattering to know what someone else likes FH, but can't have him. He is pretty wonderful, and he's all mine, so I am not worried!!
aww thats so nice, if that was me tell FH ' who?? she wants you?? she must not know you how i know you, she can have you'
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That is gross!!
I would just ignore it.. tell Fh to not even respond and hopefully she just goes away...what a NUT!!!!!
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imo, it's best to forget about. if she does it again, and it seems like it's going to be an ongoing problem, then i would start thinking about how to handle it at that point. if he's anything like my FH or either of my brothers, he'll appreciate your choice to trust him and not play into the drama. HTH
