stressed about thank yous...

our E party was Aug 14 and we still haven't sent thank yous yet, I am usually really on top of these things, but my sister told me that she was going to do our thank you card for us since she designed our invite and she still isn't done! I know she's doing me a favor and I shouldn't complain but it's been almost 2 months!!!!!!!!!

Please tell me it isn't as bad as I think it is... do you think everyone thinks it's tacky we haven't sent them yet?

Its not as bad as you're feeling about it. Granted you don't have as long as you do for a wedding (people say 1 year, I want to know where that started!!!), but as long as you get them out! and thank those who gave you things when you see/talk to them, they will appreciate it when you follow it up with a card.

I would just ask your sister nicely if there is anything you can do to help because you dont want to look unappreciative to your guests.

ITA in the fact that you should nicely ask her if she needs help!

Also, as long as you thank them in person and on the phone you should be okay as long as you send them out when you get them :)

Thanks ladies!!! Definitely feel much better. There have def been weddings I have been to and have not gotten thank yous yet from them!!!!