I need to get away. Me and FH are arguing a lot lately. I cant seem to stop picking at him. He is so great and I know the problem is me. I mean he has his ways but I keep picking at him. Almost everyday. I dont know that to do.
I really want to get away by myself. Do you ladies think this is smart? Would u do it? I am so confused and a little depressed.
beautyq115
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I was feeling the same way on Tuesday....its so stressful!!! Have you told him how you feel??
LaurenluvsTJ
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I don't see any problems with having some alone time. However, I really do think you should talk to FH about your feelings. He proably doesn't even realize what is going on.
SuzBride
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I've totally been the same way - I pick pick pick at FH, then I feel SO bad and like apologize obsessively! I think it is all the stress at work and the stress of the wedding and money stuff!
I think a day trip or a day to relax by yourself isn't a bad idea. It may help you feel more mellow and just wrap your mind around all the wedding stuff! Good luck
sarahbelle
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I think taking a little trip is a good idea. You could go with some girlfriends to a spa or something. It will give you time away from wedding planning, and hopefully help you appreciate your FH.
Kris516
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Posted by sarahbelle
I think taking a little trip is a good idea. You could go with some girlfriends to a spa or something. It will give you time away from wedding planning, and hopefully help you appreciate your FH.
Great idea...I was going to suggest the same thing. Go bond with your BMs.
Also, as I suggested to Kathleen earlier this week, take a step back from planning to eliminate some stress.
shellnroc
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I think alone time is a GREAT idea. Yes you should talk to your fiance about how you are feeling. But taking time alone will help. I was stressing myself out so much with wedding plans that I stopped for a bit. I was so stressed I was feeling sick.
cantwait2bewed
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I think i will take a one day trip by myself. It will be the smartest thing to do. He understands how I feel and things are stressful right now. I have to get myself together before i crash. This weekend I am not going to do any wedding related stuff. Except maybe talk to you girls
kissy27
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Every once & awhile you have to step back from the planning & remember you had a life prior!!! I did that in the beginning...About a month ago, FH & I were fighting all weekend long bc we were both stressed about work & wedding planning & to top it all off, we are trying to purchase a home!! We realized what was going on & stepped back to take a breath. It worked
leese
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dude...i am ALL for getting away by yourself. pick up one of your best gals and go somewhere fun.
