Stressed & Sad, need to vent!

So I have been having such a bad few days. Fh has been so negative and rude. He's kind of going through a rough time with his mom, but I just can't take it no more. He slept on the couch last night! I told him this morning to stop being so negative.

On top of all of this, I am moving Friday to our new apartment, then Tuesday I leave for San Francisco for a business trip. Then as soon as I come home next weekend, I have to watch 10 month old twins for memorial day weekend. Plus, my ffil still hasn't placed the order to the caterer for my e-party. I have so much to do for that too. Plus, I start summer school soon and its every Saturday 9-5.

I just feel so depressed and overwhelmed with everything. The last thing I need is FH getting nasty with me. He even told me I haven't done one thing he likes so far for the wedding!!!!!! Which made me sooooo sad. I don't know what to do. I think I need a day of R&R.

I'm sorry you're so stressed.

Do you have a day where you can just take off from EVERYTHING and relax or maybe do something fun, like shopping? Sometimes, its good just to take a break from everything.

aww this is a stinky situation to be in HUGS

Please, try to see if you can schedule some time for yourself...even if its just going to get your nails done and a cup of coffee somewhere, try doing something nice for yourself.
If FH is being really negative about what you have done for the wedding already then ask him what he wants and have him see/attempt the list of things that have to get done for the wedding, then let him talk about it...Maybe when he said something about not liking it he was being passive aggressive towards you for something else, but its hard to know for sure. Just try to see what he doesnt like and see if there is a middle ground you two can come to.

Hope everything works out for you!!

aww cheer up... i agree w/ the other girls, do something nice for yourself to get your mind off things. maybe visit a spa and get a nice massage!!

Your FH is probably just really stressed between his mom bugging him and all the wedding planning so he probably just needs to cool off for a bit...

your e-party plans will come together, don't worry.... i hope you feel better!!

I need a spa day or something I just have no time right now. Plus since moving up here, its been hard making new friends. So when I come home for school is usually when I do my shopping with some girlfriends.

I just feel like crap. He says I'm unappreciative. All I do is research to plan the wedding to make sure we get the best of everything and then he complains and has the nerve to say I am unappreciative!

I think you girls are right, just need to take sometime to myself. Well next week I am in San Fran, maybe its for the best!

Awww, here's a HUG! We all can relate. I would def take a day or two or even a weekend just to relax and do something fun!

awwwww everything will work out. I've been in your sit. You just need YOU time. Ignore anything he says and if he bothers you that much take a walk to cool off or take a drive somewhere. I hope it all works out. Mayb a week in San Fran will be good for you

Big hugs for you , i think that going away, eventhough it is for work might help, just to be away for a little bit, and if not you can always vent to us

We talked a little tonight and I think things are better.

But I am still gonna look into a spa!! Thanks again!

I'm glad things are going better.

Remember: Any time your stressed or sad....go online, type in liweddings.com, locate 2010 board, and VENT AWAY!!

Thanks so much girls! Its so tough, living here. Because its not like I can run to a friends house since everyone is on Long Island. But now I have LIW to run to!!!!!

Things are a little better but now we have to move over the next few days, so we will see how it goes!!